Life Stupid, Stupid, Stupid !!!!! - Page 11

badgirl · 11-09-2009, 11:57 PM

A woman I met when I was selling cars at Nissan who I kinda made friends with practically moved herself in with me, by saying "I may have to use your spare bedroom for a while", well I felt sorry for her and let her.

She has been at my house for one week and its driving me nuts, for one she only has a part time job and I told her you need to start looking for a better job so you can start saving money.

If I was in this position I would be pounding the pavement everyday looking for something and start looking to move, but she hasn't. Now I don't know what to do. I mention something everyday about her needing to find a better job and how after she starts to work she should be able to save in a month or so to move.

She even acts like she has the time to be particular about where she moves.
Damn I don't know what to do cause I keep feeling that I am supporting her I beleive we may not be friends much longer, it may end badly.

What should I do and how should I go about doing it?

Pioli Zombie · 12-25-2009, 06:10 AM

Make her earn her keep. Have her mow your lawn at least.
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Over-Head · 12-25-2009, 06:31 AM

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Well its winter and she has no place else to go, I know that shouldn't be my problem, but I would like to know when she leaves she has a place to sleep.

Surley she can spred em' for goat boy and maybe he'll sneak her into his parets basement with him.
Just tell her, horney virgen, lots of money, place to live, and all you have to do to live free is hump the idiot a few times. She'll go for it

TheGuardian · 12-25-2009, 08:10 AM

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Ok...thank you. Merry Christmas

badgirl · 01-06-2010, 05:45 PM

UPDATE: She is moving out by the first of Feb. Maybe sooner.

**mikeyis4dcats.** · 01-06-2010, 05:45 PM

she hasn't killed you and worn your skin yet?

**bevischief** · 01-06-2010, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

UPDATE: She is moving out by the first of Feb. Maybe sooner.

Stop cleaning and stocking food in the house...

badgirl · 01-06-2010, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by mikeyis4dcats.

she hasn't killed you and worn your skin yet?

No, but she was about to wear out my nerves.

badgirl · 01-06-2010, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by chevy369

Stop cleaning and stocking food in the house...

I'm an obsessive cleaner, that won't work.

**The Franchise** · 01-06-2010, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

UPDATE: She is moving out by the first of Feb. Maybe sooner.

She should have been gone the day you started the thread. FAIL on your part.

Hog's Gone Fishin · 01-06-2010, 06:25 PM

Did you ever get the opportunity to have sex with her ?

**Bearcat** · 01-06-2010, 06:40 PM

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Hoping she catches the hint without me being mean.

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Well what adds to it is I feel she has no respect for my privacy. My boyfriend and I were finally off the weekend at the same time. We left saturday and went to town and thinking she would be gone when I got back. I told her we had plans for the weekend. We came back and she was still sitting there and I had to tell her that she needed to find somewhere to go. I do not think I needed to tell her this, she had time in advance to know me and him had plans and wanted to be alone. If she would respect my life and the fact its my house it wouldn't be so bad, but I feel she doesn't do that.

This is why I generally hate people... and why I don't like having roommates. The passive-aggressive bullsh*t and "hope they get the hint" type of stuff drives me crazy. It's one thing to not want to nag about the same stuff all the time, but people don't change for no reason at all, and anyone who can't take criticism needs more in their lives anyway... you'll be helping them get over themselves.

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So some deadbeat bitch, who has been kicked out of the lives of everyone she knows, TELLS you that she’s moving in with you. You let her. Now she is acting like a homeless leech, invading your life, taking advantage of you, giving nothing back, making no effort to be productive, and you are afraid to say anything?

I’m surprised they let people like you live on your own. Don’t bother asking for advise about this “friend” situation, you better start small, like dressing and feeding yourself.

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For all the guff I give you, you do have a heart at least 3x the size of your IQ and that's a good problem to have.

Assuming there's a floor on the IQ, or else you'll just be walked on your whole life because you're too stupid & nice to do anything about it...

**Skip Towne** · 01-06-2010, 06:46 PM

Hey, Gloria, glad to see she is moving out. She should be out the middle of March or 1st of April. I know the type.

badgirl · 01-06-2010, 06:46 PM

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Did you ever get the opportunity to have sex with her ?

Never tried.

badgirl · 01-06-2010, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Skip Towne

Hey, Gloria, glad to see she is moving out. She should be out the middle of March or 1st of April. I know the type.

No, she don't have a choice.

TheGuardian · 01-06-2010, 06:50 PM

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Never tried.

DAMMIT!

11-09-2009, 11:57 PM
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