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badgirl · 11-09-2009, 11:57 PM

A woman I met when I was selling cars at Nissan who I kinda made friends with practically moved herself in with me, by saying "I may have to use your spare bedroom for a while", well I felt sorry for her and let her.

She has been at my house for one week and its driving me nuts, for one she only has a part time job and I told her you need to start looking for a better job so you can start saving money.

If I was in this position I would be pounding the pavement everyday looking for something and start looking to move, but she hasn't. Now I don't know what to do. I mention something everyday about her needing to find a better job and how after she starts to work she should be able to save in a month or so to move.

She even acts like she has the time to be particular about where she moves.
Damn I don't know what to do cause I keep feeling that I am supporting her I beleive we may not be friends much longer, it may end badly.

What should I do and how should I go about doing it?

**QuikSsurfer** · 11-10-2009, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

I think we all know what we're dealing with here.

A couple fatties?

Param · 11-10-2009, 12:07 AM

So you allowed her to move in. Does she pay her bills?

badgirl · 11-10-2009, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by QuikSsurfer

Is she hot? pics?

and yes, you are quite stupid.

Well this has to be the stupidest thing I have ever done to allow this to happen, I work too damn hard for what I have to allow someone to step in and invade my space and my home.

badgirl · 11-10-2009, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Param

So you allowed her to move in. Does she pay her bills?

I pay all the bills, its my house, I have to keep my bills paid either way. She has only been there a week, but I paid my rent last friday, she got paid on tuesday and didn't offer me anything. she makes less in a month than I pay in rent.

badgirl · 11-10-2009, 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by QuikSsurfer

A couple fatties?

Who? I know your are not talking about me. I am not in the mood for this subject of fat.

**Bugeater** · 11-10-2009, 12:11 AM

Which of the following best describes her tittahs?

1. (.)(.)

2.(.)(.)

3.(.)(.)

Param · 11-10-2009, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

I pay all the bills, its my house, I have to keep my bills paid either way. She has only been there a week, but I paid my rent last friday, she got paid on tuesday and didn't offer me anything. she makes less in a month than I pay in rent.

If i let someone move in with me, i want them to pay some bills.

Now you sound like you did this out of the kindness of your heart. You can't be naggin the crap out of her after only 1 week.

Tactical Funky · 11-10-2009, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

Who? I know your are not talking about me. I am not in the mood for this subject of fat.

**BigMeatballDave** · 11-10-2009, 12:12 AM

Are you hot? You 2 should make out and take pics.

11-10-2009, 12:13 AM

Go to a thrift store. Put $10 into a piece of luggage. Pack her stuff. Call a cab. Put $20 in her hand and wish her well.

It will be the best $30 you ever spent.

badgirl · 11-10-2009, 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Param

If i let someone move in with me, i want them to pay some bills.

Now you sound like you did this out of the kindness of your heart. You can't be naggin the crap out of her after only 1 week.

Ok let me give you a little history, I have known her for 3 years in which time she has lived with her boyfriend, who died, then moved in with her brother for over a year, then he made her leave ( I don't know the whole story) then moved in with as old woman as a live in sitter, then moved in with this guy she met on the net for like 2 mos. then he ran her off and she moved in with me. Yea I did feel sorry for her, but she is my age and she should face life and realize nothing is free and you can't just be living off someone. I am afraid if I don't stay on her she will think she can stay right on and on the way it is and never move out until it has to end badly. I really don't want that to happen, but I will not be taken advantage of.

kcxiv · 11-10-2009, 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Param

If i let someone move in with me, i want them to pay some bills.

Now you sound like you did this out of the kindness of your heart. You can't be naggin the crap out of her after only 1 week.

This. I know some people are total dicks, but what you gotta do is ask her what her plans are and tell her how you feel about the situation. If you dont then, its all your fault. If its only been a week, she's not really mooching a damned thing yet. NOw after a month or so and she gives you jack shit, then bitch you gotta go.

kcxiv · 11-10-2009, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

Ok let me give you a little history, I have known her for 3 years in which time she has lived with her boyfriend, who died, then moved in with her brother for over a year, then he made her leave ( I don't know the whole story) then moved in with as old woman as a live in sitter, then moved in with this guy she met on the net for like 2 mos. then he ran her off and she moved in with me. Yea I did feel sorry for her, but she is my age and she should face life and realize nothing is free and you can't just be living off someone. I am afraid if I don't stay on her she will think she can stay right on and on the way it is and never move out until it has to end badly. I really don't want that to happen, but I will not be taken advantage of.

Again, sit and talked to her ask her what she intends to do. Dont beat around the bush. Just tell her, i am not doing this to be an ass, but you gotta know what you are going to do. Just talk to her like a human being about things. Its not hard.

**Bugeater** · 11-10-2009, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

Ok let me give you a little history, I have known her for 3 years in which time she has lived with her boyfriend, who died, then moved in with her brother for over a year, then he made her leave ( I don't know the whole story) then moved in with as a live in sitter, then moved in with this guy she met on the net for like 2 mos. then he ran her off and she moved in with me. Yea I did feel sorry for her, but she is my age and she should face life and realize nothing is free and you can't just be living off someone. I am afraid if I don't stay on her she will think she can stay right on and on the way it is and never move out until it has to end badly. I really don't want that to happen, but I will not be taken advantage of.

Gee, you didn't think that the fact that everyone else running her out was a huge red flag? This woman isn't your friend, she's a goddamn leech.

Now can we discuss her boobies?

Tactical Funky · 11-10-2009, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Phobia

Go to a thrift store. Put $10 into a piece of luggage. Pack her stuff. Call a cab. Put $20 in her hand and wish her well.

It will be the best $30 you ever spent.

Phobia's right on the money here (pardon the pun).

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