My friend, Seclark - Page 12

**Iowanian** · 02-04-2025, 05:08 PM

It’s not often that I don’t have the words, but this is one of those times. Today I received a message from Mrs Seclark that she asked me to share with all of you. It’s not an easy message to even type.

Sec passed away this morning after a battle with cancer and ALS.

We communicated semi regularly and it was always a pleasure. Scott was one of the best humans, who lived to love his family and friends. Never once did he complain about his challenges, he was always so positive…and usually more concerned with what was going on with me. I can’t do him justice in this message, but in some of our last texts, when I mentioned his illness, he said the following quote that defines the man for me:

“I haven’t tasted food in 3 months. But I Am Blessed! I have family and friends who love me and stay with me. I have elders and a pastor who visit me. My grandchildren are my pride and joy and they come and see me. That’s all I need in life”

He was a great, great guy and I’ll miss him on a personal level. A random poster on a message board became someone I consider one of my best pals in life. I hope I can become as good of a man as I considered him to be.

It is my hope that CP can honor him, and I will find an appropriate cause or fund that his family supports and ask those who considered him a friend, Like I did, to honor him that way.

-Sec forever.

LongSufferingToady · 02-28-2025, 11:28 PM

I'm so sorry for your friend and you. ALS is a very unkind disease.

**DaFace** · 03-04-2025, 01:05 PM

It's been a month, so I'll go ahead and move this over to the In Memoriam forum. RIP, Sec.

02-04-2025, 05:08 PM
Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $2288454	My friend, Seclark It’s not often that I don’t have the words, but this is one of those times. Today I received a message from Mrs Seclark that she asked me to share with all of you. It’s not an easy message to even type. Sec passed away this morning after a battle with cancer and ALS. We communicated semi regularly and it was always a pleasure. Scott was one of the best humans, who lived to love his family and friends. Never once did he complain about his challenges, he was always so positive…and usually more concerned with what was going on with me. I can’t do him justice in this message, but in some of our last texts, when I mentioned his illness, he said the following quote that defines the man for me: “I haven’t tasted food in 3 months. But I Am Blessed! I have family and friends who love me and stay with me. I have elders and a pastor who visit me. My grandchildren are my pride and joy and they come and see me. That’s all I need in life” He was a great, great guy and I’ll miss him on a personal level. A random poster on a message board became someone I consider one of my best pals in life. I hope I can become as good of a man as I considered him to be. It is my hope that CP can honor him, and I will find an appropriate cause or fund that his family supports and ask those who considered him a friend, Like I did, to honor him that way. -Sec forever.
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02-28-2025, 11:28 PM	#166
LongSufferingToady Old, not Dead Join Date: Dec 2018 Location: Where the Buffalo Roam... Casino cash: $9170400	I'm so sorry for your friend and you. ALS is a very unkind disease. __________________ A nip here. A tuck there. Pretty soon you're talking about real money.
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03-04-2025, 01:05 PM	#167
DaFace Kind of a mod Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Donkey Land Casino cash: $-1143101	It's been a month, so I'll go ahead and move this over to the In Memoriam forum. RIP, Sec.
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