Does anyone get laid in this city? - Page 9

xztop123 · 08-04-2014, 12:53 AM

outside of social circles?

i';ve been going out every weekend for the past 2 years. Not much to speak of in terms of success. PUA attempted

ToxSocks · 08-05-2014, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by xztop123

Not because girls necessarily want a fun guy, but because it demonstrates that you haven't SUFFERED a lot in the past, and probably have an emotionally healthy mind

Girls absolutely want a fun guy. It has nothing to do with suffering and everything to do with the fact that chicks that AREN'T broken don't want an emotionally broken dude because....well....that shit isn't fun. She doesn't care if you suffered in your past, she just wants to know that she doesn't have to coddle you and that you aren't going to be all clingy and jealous.

Generally, women like their men to be men.

xztop123 · 08-05-2014, 11:42 AM

detoxing ive been on dates that were literally laughing from start to the end. girls kissed me. it was like complete fun fun fun, all sarcasm. making fun of things mixed with letting them talk/open up

What happened? they stopped returning my texts and phone calls. This is after making out with me in broad daylight in a public place.

xztop123 · 08-05-2014, 11:44 AM

The truth is, the way to attract a girl is with money, popularity or some kind of very dominant feature such as an incredibly deep voice, broad shoulders, and powerful jawline (you can google the evolutionary studies on this)

An ovulating woman wants a masculine man. A non ovulating woman wants a provider (money/status)

Being fun and going out can probably land you a girl who is 1 point below you in looks (her relative value is low so hooking up with a guy based solely on fun is viable)

xztop123 · 08-05-2014, 11:45 AM

Also check out my plastic surgery morph

George Liquor · 08-05-2014, 11:47 AM

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KU is easy mode. im in overland park, i doubt id be complaining if i lived there.

I'm not complaining. I'm just a few months from my 30th birthday so KU women are a bit young for me. I've spent my 20's having plenty of drunken meaningless sex.. That's not really what I want anymore. Sure, I won't turn it down. But I want something different.

xztop123 · 08-05-2014, 11:49 AM

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I'm not complaining. I'm just a few months from my 30th birthday so KU women are a bit young for me. I've spent my 20's having plenty of drunken meaningless sex.. That's not really what I want anymore. Sure, I won't turn it down. But I want something different.

Hard for me to grasp how a guy can just have drunken meaningless sex that easily and casually speak of it.

I was under the impression (i used to be a recluse) that all i had to do was go out and it would happen. I spent 2 years out of my house actively approaching women. I would estimate I've approached 2,000 (i have 300-400 numbers in my phone)

George Liquor · 08-05-2014, 11:56 AM

I've partied pretty hard throughout my 20's.. It's bound to happen. I quit trying to meet women at the bar and tried a few online dating sites. Those also worked pretty well. Give that a try man. Women are just as horny as men.

Lonewolf Ed · 08-05-2014, 12:01 PM

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I am getting constantly told im too much of an asshole`

Ah, well that is still better than being a nice guy. The one who gets the lion's share is the asshole with potential. That is not the same as a mere asshole.

xztop123 · 08-05-2014, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by BDj23

I've partied pretty hard throughout my 20's.. It's bound to happen. I quit trying to meet women at the bar and tried a few online dating sites. Those also worked pretty well. Give that a try man. Women are just as horny as men.

I have

I got a BJ from this tattoo artist 5/10 girl with bad breath

Demonpenz · 08-05-2014, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by xztop123

I disagree about that being a turn on for girls. A guy who is emotionally weathered is a biological TURN OFF. which is why being fun/life of the party is probably such a turn-on. Not because girls necessarily want a fun guy, but because it demonstrates that you haven't SUFFERED a lot in the past, and probably have an emotionally healthy mind

once you get laid, you can disagree.

George Liquor · 08-05-2014, 12:08 PM

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I have

I got a BJ from this tattoo artist 5/10 girl with bad breath

Gotta learn to crawl before you can get walk?

ThaVirus · 08-05-2014, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by xztop123

I disagree about that being a turn on for girls. A guy who is emotionally weathered is a biological TURN OFF. which is why being fun/life of the party is probably such a turn-on. Not because girls necessarily want a fun guy, but because it demonstrates that you haven't SUFFERED a lot in the past, and probably have an emotionally healthy mind

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Originally Posted by xztop123

detoxing ive been on dates that were literally laughing from start to the end. girls kissed me. it was like complete fun fun fun, all sarcasm. making fun of things mixed with letting them talk/open up

What happened? they stopped returning my texts and phone calls. This is after making out with me in broad daylight in a public place.

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Originally Posted by xztop123

The truth is, the way to attract a girl is with money, popularity or some kind of very dominant feature such as an incredibly deep voice, broad shoulders, and powerful jawline (you can google the evolutionary studies on this)

An ovulating woman wants a masculine man. A non ovulating woman wants a provider (money/status)

Being fun and going out can probably land you a girl who is 1 point below you in looks (her relative value is low so hooking up with a guy based solely on fun is viable)

You haven't been laid in 2 years, mother****er. You ain't allowed to come in hear disagreeing with sound advice. WE tell YOU what's good 'cause we're not rocking the dry nood.

xztop123 · 08-05-2014, 12:23 PM

I dont think the common man fully appreciates how much a man's jaw effects every area of his life

Example of two equally douchey guys (one will be seen as a normal party kid and the other is a ****ing idiot who you want to punch)

xztop123 · 08-05-2014, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Demonpenz

once you get laid, you can disagree.

Honestly though I dont think it really matters. The two guys i linked highlight how little personality will matter

the top kid could act like an asshole, a nice guy, a fun loving guy and the guy in the red could have full blown aspergers and still OBVIOUSLY do better

KC native · 08-05-2014, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Demonpenz

once you get laid, you can disagree.

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08-05-2014, 11:42 AM	#122
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08-05-2014, 12:23 PM	#133
xztop123 Veteran Join Date: Apr 2013 Casino cash: $2520609	I dont think the common man fully appreciates how much a man's jaw effects every area of his life Example of two equally douchey guys (one will be seen as a normal party kid and the other is a ****ing idiot who you want to punch)
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