I've Caught the Cancer [RIP]

[HayWire]

Obituary:
https://www.fohnfuneralhome.com/obit...ichael-brattin

In Loving Memory
Michael B
(name removed just to keep this thread from being the first result when someone Googles his name, but you can find it at the link)
July 6, 1976 - August 2, 2024

Michael B, age 48, of Mt. Vernon, Missouri passed away peacefully on August 2, 2024, at his home.

He was born July 6, 1976, in Cassville, Missouri the son of David and Doris (Sanders) Conner. On October 20, 2007, Michael married the love of his life, Emme Robertson in Carthage, Missouri. Their union was blessed with love, laughter, and the joy of raising a family together. Michael is survived by his father, David Conner; devoted wife, Emme Brattin; three sons, Dalton Brattin and his wife Shanya of Monett, Missouri, Chad Brattin of Exeter, Missouri and Brett Brattin of Mt. Vernon, Missouri; one daughter, Jayda Brattin and her fiancé Tyler Yeargain of Exeter, Missouri; one brother, Eric Brattin and his wife Donna of Davenport, Florida; one sister, Tobie Jones and her husband Brandon of Buena Vista, Colorado; six grandchildren; two grand dogs and two grand cats.

Preceding him in death were his mother, Doris (Sanders) Conner and grandparents, James and Bonnie Sanders.

Michael graduated in 1994 from Purdy High School in Purdy, Missouri, his pursuit of knowledge led him to Crowder College in Neosho, Missouri, where he earned his associate's degree in accounting. He worked as an accountant for Damar Worldwide in Aurora, Missouri.

Michael attended the Covenant Baptist Church in Mt. Vernon. Outside of work and church, he was an avid fan of the Kansas City Chiefs, reveling in the excitement of football season each year. His love for the game was just one of the many passions that he shared with his family and friends. Michael also enjoyed being outside, whether it was tending to his yard, enjoying a family barbeque, playing friendly games of pig basketball and golf, or simply taking a moment to appreciate the beauty of nature.

Services will be held at 2:00 P.M. Tuesday, August 6, 2024, at Fohn Funeral Home in Cassville, Missouri. Pastor Rick Cooper will be conducting the services. Burial will be at Maplewood Cemetery in Exeter, Missouri.

The family will receive friends from 5:00 until 6:00 P.M., Monday, August 5, 2024, at Fohn Funeral Home in Cassville.

Contributions may be made to Three Rivers Hospice in memory of Michael.

FOHN FUNERAL HOME
Cassville, Missouri
417-847-2141

5/25/23 Update:

Spoiler!

Originally Posted by HayWire

Thank you all. Been a wild week


The doc said to start getting ready. Called on the family in for good bye...you guys are part of my family.

The doctors are guessing a couple of weeks left

Original Post:

Spoiler!

Been having health issues for a while now.

Just got the news yesterday from my last test.

I officially got ****ing cancer in my gut.



Edit:
Sorry all,

Had a couple of days that weren't the best.

It was a swift reminder that I still have things to take care of.

My wife still needs to learn passwords, bills, etc. That got me thinking about what my "footprint" will look like when I'm gone.

I'm actually an intensely private person and I thought I've shared a tad much on here. At the same time I've got to talk to a lot of great people here and it does lift my spirits some when I see the positive posts from everyone.

Got rid of most of the pics etc.....the more I thought about it the more I felt selfish. CP has been my go to for 10+ years now and it didn't feel right to throw the C word out there and then just ignore it like it didn't happen.

Thanks,
HayWire

[Hog's Gone Fishin]

Originally Posted by Jewish Rabbi

I had a mass removed from my neck a month ago. Turned out to be cancerous. Will be thinking of Haywire and his strength and attitude as I start radiation. I don’t feel sorry for myself but it’s been non stop worrying about my wife and 5 month old son.

Wishing you the best outcome!

[Hog's Gone Fishin]

Originally Posted by lewdog

WTF do you have to complain about?

Most likely an AIDS infection.

[jdubya]

Originally Posted by Jewish Rabbi

I had a mass removed from my neck a month ago. Turned out to be cancerous. Will be thinking of Haywire and his strength and attitude as I start radiation. I don’t feel sorry for myself but it’s been non stop worrying about my wife and 5 month old son.

2016 I had a neck dissection for throat ca followed up with 7 weeks, 5 x a week head neck radiation. PM me if you have any questions. It will be a bumpy ride my friend.

[burt]

Originally Posted by Jewish Rabbi

I had a mass removed from my neck a month ago. Turned out to be cancerous. Will be thinking of Haywire and his strength and attitude as I start radiation. I don’t feel sorry for myself but it’s been non stop worrying about my wife and 5 month old son.

Be strong, til you can’t. I’ve had 2 growths removed From my neck and a BIG one removed from my butt. 21 inch incision. Non cancerous. But I got other shit going on. I just want normal.

[Fish]

Ride on, Haywire. Glad to have known you. Respect.

[Lzen]

Dang, this sucks. RIP, Haywire. May God take you into his loving arms.

[penguinz]

[Mile High Mania]

Terrible news. I don’t recall having many interactions with Haywire, but it is very sad to hear about his passing. RIP and best of luck to others that are fighting the fight. Cancer sucks.

[GloryDayz]

RIP..

[booger]

To say he put up an awesome fight would be an understatement. He and others that share their experiences leave behind some knowledge of what to expect and examples of all the ups and downs for everyone involved. That’s going to help folks in the future and it’s just a very noble thing. God Bless his wife and children, the entire family and friends. Been a long tough road I can only imagine. Will definitely keep them all in my prayers

[Ocotillo]

Reading the Cellphoneless thread, it feels like the world is a shittier place without HayWire. RIP

[GloryDayz]

Originally Posted by booger

To say he put up an awesome fight would be an understatement. He and others that share their experiences leave behind some knowledge of what to expect and examples of all the ups and downs for everyone involved. That’s going to help folks in the future and it’s just a very noble thing. God Bless his wife and children, the entire family and friends. Been a long tough road I can only imagine. Will definitely keep them all in my prayers

All of this..

[irafreak]

Originally Posted by Jewish Rabbi

I had a mass removed from my neck a month ago. Turned out to be cancerous. Will be thinking of Haywire and his strength and attitude as I start radiation. I don’t feel sorry for myself but it’s been non stop worrying about my wife and 5 month old son.

We're here for you.

[New World Order]

Originally Posted by Jewish Rabbi

I had a mass removed from my neck a month ago. Turned out to be cancerous. Will be thinking of Haywire and his strength and attitude as I start radiation. I don’t feel sorry for myself but it’s been non stop worrying about my wife and 5 month old son.

Damn man I’m sorry

[dlphg9]

Originally Posted by HayWire

Well, I think we're hitting a wall.
I'm not saying this is my last post but I won't be surprised if it is. Body and brain are arguing....bastards.

Lost even more weight still can't eat.

It's been a place I found to rest and say stupid shit.

This has been a great community and I hope it continues for years. I'll try to pop in if possible but don't hold your breath.

It's been a ride my friends.

Thank to all the kind words spoken along the way

Hopefully more time but I wanted to say goodbye guy while I can

Thank 'CP

Michael

Originally Posted by Enid Borden

Oh I know. I couldn't believe my eyes. Guy had balls the size of church bells and defied the doctors. I suspected his improvement of late was a pre-death rally effect. People at the last stage seem to improve a bit right before they go as if their bodies are giving their last reserves.

That guy's toughness is an inspiration and example to live by. Certainly to me, and no doubt to all of us.

His improvement as of late? The post above way from July of last year and he clearly thought he wasnt going to make it long. Not too long after that he really improved and then he had pretty close to a year that he seemed to have felt pretty damn good. Thats more than just your normal feeling energetic a day before you die.