Is Love worth losing your best friend? - Page 5

shyguyms · 09:58 PM

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Part 1 of this adventure begins here. Shortly after this thread, this user reappeared under a username, but managed to stay under the radar. Until this happened.

I fell in love with my best friend or did i become best friends with the one i loved? hell even im confused.

for almost 6 years i spent all my time with my best friend ,alot of good and bad times that i would not take back for anything in this world but im not sure she feels the same way about it as me and that is killing me inside.

Should i feel the way i do about her now? I mean i will always love her and be grateful for meeting her, but i am so thrilled that she has found someone to love her the way her and her son needs to be loved. I finally came to the conclusion that i could not give her what she needed in life. The other day i seen her and her lil guy with her new man and seeing them i was thinking they all deserve that , they all deserve to be happy and at that moment i knew i had to move on with my life. i was so happy for them all that i cried a happy cry i just hope that someday we can all be friends and take the good out of that past 6 years and i will never forget all that she has done for me and my family.

There is still one thing killing me is that i can't talk to my best friend at a time like this when im dying inside and have noone to talk to.

I miss that in my life and i hope that someday she will feel the same way about me and be my friend , i cannot keep goiong on like this
I NEED MY BEST FRIEND BACK

**Iowanian** · 04-04-2008, 02:09 PM

waaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit a damn minute....

You've got a wife and kids, and you're being this butthurt about another chic?

You've got a woman to fill this role...she's called your effing wife.

I'm done with the kindness now, dickhole. You might want to slather on some anti-flame vaseline and a stunt suit.

Brock · 04-04-2008, 02:09 PM

OMG. You asshole.

**Iowanian** · 04-04-2008, 02:10 PM

Her husband just dedicated this song to you. Its an effing awesome tune too.

Radar Chief · 04-04-2008, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger

Errr, focus on your family.

No shit. Didn't see that one coming.

Sully · 04-04-2008, 02:12 PM

Wow.
I was just going to post something serious and hopefully helpful...
But this just got weird and creepy.

seclark · 04-04-2008, 02:13 PM

uh...you're not stalking this chick, are you shygums?
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shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 02:13 PM

if i did something right in this whole thing it was breaking her and her hubby up, he is a piece of trash. Her son is much better off with the man she is with now.
His father is never there or he chooses when to be with there when it's good for him.
Her new man has a good career and seems to be a great person so hell f i did something right it was helping in them gettin divorced.

BIG_DADDY · 04-04-2008, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

your right she had a son with her husband, she is originally from Maryland but they were living in Louisianna, i went there with her and moved her back to Maryland 6 years ago, as i was also married, she got a divorce and i never did, i couldn't give up my family of my children and that is my fault and yes i am guilty of alot of things in my life but there is nothing in this world i wouldn't do just to have my best friend to talk to.

Give up your kids? Let me tell you something, there isn't a box in this world even if she was my full time love slave that I would ever even consider leaving my kid for. Be greatful you have them and move on dude.

**Donger** · 04-04-2008, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

if i did something right in this whole thing it was breaking her and her hubby up, he is a piece of trash. Her son is much better off with the man she is with now.
His father is never there or he chooses when to be with there when it's good for him.
Her new man has a good career and seems to be a great person so hell f i did something right it was helping in them gettin divorced.

You need to remove yourself from this woman's life. Now.

raybec 4 · 04-04-2008, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by seclark

uh...you're not stalking this chick, are you shygums?
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The voices in his head tell him that she loves him.

**Iowanian** · 04-04-2008, 02:15 PM

Its times like this, that I wish CinW were still posting.

I'd pay a quarter to see that post.

BIG_DADDY · 04-04-2008, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

if i did something right in this whole thing it was breaking her and her hubby up, he is a piece of trash. Her son is much better off with the man she is with now.
His father is never there or he chooses when to be with there when it's good for him.
Her new man has a good career and seems to be a great person so hell f i did something right it was helping in them gettin divorced.

why do you keep talking about her kid instead of your own?

**The Franchise** · 04-04-2008, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger

You need to remove yourself from this woman's life. Now.

Exactly.

melbar · 04-04-2008, 02:17 PM

Did the same thing. 11 years where we were always with someone else. I was friends with her ex-husband but was loyal to her and was there for her as he slipped into jerkitude. Just gotta be the loyal friend and be respectfull. If it will it will, if it wont it wont.

shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 02:18 PM

No i would never give up my kids, I loved her but i didnt want to take a chance on my wife taking my kids from me so i never made the move to be with her and only her.
No i dont stalk her, Why stalk her? i want her to be happy and move on with life, I want the best for her and her son and i think she has found that, im not asking for her to be with me, im asking for my best friend back atleast that if we see each other out sometime that we wont act like we don't know each other.

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shyguyms Starter Join Date: Sep 2002 Casino cash: $10004900	if i did something right in this whole thing it was breaking her and her hubby up, he is a piece of trash. Her son is much better off with the man she is with now. His father is never there or he chooses when to be with there when it's good for him. Her new man has a good career and seems to be a great person so hell f i did something right it was helping in them gettin divorced.
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melbar Hillbilly Pharoh Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Branson MO. Casino cash: $10004900	Did the same thing. 11 years where we were always with someone else. I was friends with her ex-husband but was loyal to her and was there for her as he slipped into jerkitude. Just gotta be the loyal friend and be respectfull. If it will it will, if it wont it wont. __________________
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04-04-2008, 02:18 PM	#75
shyguyms Starter Join Date: Sep 2002 Casino cash: $10004900	No i would never give up my kids, I loved her but i didnt want to take a chance on my wife taking my kids from me so i never made the move to be with her and only her. No i dont stalk her, Why stalk her? i want her to be happy and move on with life, I want the best for her and her son and i think she has found that, im not asking for her to be with me, im asking for my best friend back atleast that if we see each other out sometime that we wont act like we don't know each other.
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