Is Love worth losing your best friend? - Page 4

shyguyms · 09:58 PM

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Part 1 of this adventure begins here. Shortly after this thread, this user reappeared under a username, but managed to stay under the radar. Until this happened.

I fell in love with my best friend or did i become best friends with the one i loved? hell even im confused.

for almost 6 years i spent all my time with my best friend ,alot of good and bad times that i would not take back for anything in this world but im not sure she feels the same way about it as me and that is killing me inside.

Should i feel the way i do about her now? I mean i will always love her and be grateful for meeting her, but i am so thrilled that she has found someone to love her the way her and her son needs to be loved. I finally came to the conclusion that i could not give her what she needed in life. The other day i seen her and her lil guy with her new man and seeing them i was thinking they all deserve that , they all deserve to be happy and at that moment i knew i had to move on with my life. i was so happy for them all that i cried a happy cry i just hope that someday we can all be friends and take the good out of that past 6 years and i will never forget all that she has done for me and my family.

There is still one thing killing me is that i can't talk to my best friend at a time like this when im dying inside and have noone to talk to.

I miss that in my life and i hope that someday she will feel the same way about me and be my friend , i cannot keep goiong on like this
I NEED MY BEST FRIEND BACK

**Donger** · 04-04-2008, 01:55 PM

Lloyd, listen to me. EVERYTHING has changed. You've had sex. No matter what you might think, nothing will ever be the same between you two. You might be sixty. You might be walking down the street, and you'll talk to her about something, whatever. But what you'll really be thinking is 'We had sex'.

BIG_DADDY · 04-04-2008, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

yes i slept with her, we dated for 6 years, but why cant people that were best friends before the relationship just continue to be friends and forget that the rest of it even happend? i would do anything for her and her son and til the day i die she will be my best friend and nothing can ever change that!!

Your self-loathing is not attractive dude. It's not an accident that you ended up here. Problem now is she will never look at you as a real man now. Try to pick up as many alpha tendancies as possible in the future and move on. Graveling is going to get you nowhere.

shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 01:58 PM

no i will be thinking, there goes my best friend and oh yeah the sex was great too,lol
she could light up my darkest days, and as i sit here i will never have anything bad to say about her.

**Donger** · 04-04-2008, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

no i will be thinking, there goes my best friend and oh yeah the sex was great too,lol
she could light up my darkest days, and as i sit here i will never have anything bad to say about her.

So, who knocked her up? I'm guessing neither you nor the guy she is presently with.

**The Franchise** · 04-04-2008, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY

Your self-loathing is not attractive dude. It's not an accident that you ended up here. Problem now is she will never look at you as a real man now. Try to pick up as many alpha tendancies as possible in the future and move on. Graveling is going to get you nowhere.

A women likes a gravel driveway.

BIG_DADDY · 04-04-2008, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by pestilenceaf23

A women likes a gravel driveway.

You say grovel I say gravel.

Either way you get stepped on.

**Iowanian** · 04-04-2008, 02:02 PM

*someone* is going to be cruising around in a camero drinking cheap beer with Cinderella in the tape deck..

"dddddddoooooooooooooon't know what ya got.....til its gooooooooooooooooone, and it ain' easy................................"

shyguyms · 04-04-2008, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger

So, who knocked her up? I'm guessing neither you nor the guy she is presently with.

your right she had a son with her husband, she is originally from Maryland but they were living in Louisianna, i went there with her and moved her back to Maryland 6 years ago, as i was also married, she got a divorce and i never did, i couldn't give up my family of my children and that is my fault and yes i am guilty of alot of things in my life but there is nothing in this world i wouldn't do just to have my best friend to talk to.

Radar Chief · 04-04-2008, 02:03 PM

Wow.

This topic is a little hard to read.
But it’s time to take off the waa panties and reclaim your balls.
Seriously dude, the neighbors are starting to complain about the chick crying hysterically in you room.

88TG88 · 04-04-2008, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

*someone* is going to be cruising around in a camero drinking cheap beer with Cinderella in the tape deck..

"dddddddoooooooooooooon't know what ya got.....til its gooooooooooooooooone, and it ain' easy................................"

I was thinking this

**Iowanian** · 04-04-2008, 02:03 PM

Lets go ahead and get that "healing cry" out of the way pal.

feel free to sing along...

I can't tell ya baby what went wrong
I can't make you feel what you felt so long ago
I'll let it show
I can't give you back what's been hurt
Heartaches come and go and all that's left are the words
I can't let go
If we take some time to think it over baby
Take some time, let me know
If you really want to go

Don't know what you got till it's gone
Don't know what it is I did so wrong
Now I know what I got
It's just this song
And it ain't easy to get back
Takes so long

I can't feel the things that cause you pain
I can't clear my heart of your love it falls like rain
Ain't the same
I hear you calling far away
Tearing through my soul I just can't take another day
Who's to blame
If we take some time to think it over baby
Take some time let me know
If you really wanna go

Don't know what you got till it's gone
Don't know what it is I did so wrong
Now I know what I got
It's just this song
And it ain't easy to get back
Takes so long

Do you wanna see me beggin' baby
Can't you give me just one more day
Can't you see my heart's been draggin' lately
I've been lookin' for the words to say

Don't know what you got till it's gone
Don't know what it is I did so wrong
Now I know what I got
It's just this song
And it ain't easy to get back
Takes so long

Don't know what you got till it's gone no
Don't know what it is I did so wrong
Now I know what I got
It's just this song
And it ain't easy to get back
Takes so long

**Donger** · 04-04-2008, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

your right she had a son with her husband, she is originally from Maryland but they were living in Louisianna, i went there with her and moved her back to Maryland 6 years ago, as i was also married, she got a divorce and i never did, i couldn't give up my family of my children and that is my fault and yes i am guilty of alot of things in my life but there is nothing in this world i wouldn't do just to have my best friend to talk to.

Errr, focus on your family.

Coogs · 04-04-2008, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by shyguyms

your right she had a son with her husband, she is originally from Maryland but they were living in Louisianna, i went there with her and moved her back to Maryland 6 years ago, as i was also married, she got a divorce and i never did, i couldn't give up my family of my children and that is my fault and yes i am guilty of alot of things in my life but there is nothing in this world i wouldn't do just to have my best friend to talk to.

You have a wife and kids?

seclark · 04-04-2008, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger

Errr, focus on your family.

no shit...
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**Iowanian** · 04-04-2008, 02:07 PM

This should be the finishing move on the lump in your throat and let the healing waters run....

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04-04-2008, 01:58 PM	#48
shyguyms Starter Join Date: Sep 2002 Casino cash: $10004900	no i will be thinking, there goes my best friend and oh yeah the sex was great too,lol she could light up my darkest days, and as i sit here i will never have anything bad to say about her.
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04-04-2008, 02:03 PM	#54
Radar Chief Wearing ballistic dog goggles. Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: In the box. Casino cash: $3901503	Wow. This topic is a little hard to read. But it’s time to take off the waa panties and reclaim your balls. Seriously dude, the neighbors are starting to complain about the chick crying hysterically in you room.
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04-04-2008, 02:03 PM	#56
Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $3248454	Lets go ahead and get that "healing cry" out of the way pal. feel free to sing along... I can't tell ya baby what went wrong I can't make you feel what you felt so long ago I'll let it show I can't give you back what's been hurt Heartaches come and go and all that's left are the words I can't let go If we take some time to think it over baby Take some time, let me know If you really want to go Don't know what you got till it's gone Don't know what it is I did so wrong Now I know what I got It's just this song And it ain't easy to get back Takes so long I can't feel the things that cause you pain I can't clear my heart of your love it falls like rain Ain't the same I hear you calling far away Tearing through my soul I just can't take another day Who's to blame If we take some time to think it over baby Take some time let me know If you really wanna go Don't know what you got till it's gone Don't know what it is I did so wrong Now I know what I got It's just this song And it ain't easy to get back Takes so long Do you wanna see me beggin' baby Can't you give me just one more day Can't you see my heart's been draggin' lately I've been lookin' for the words to say Don't know what you got till it's gone Don't know what it is I did so wrong Now I know what I got It's just this song And it ain't easy to get back Takes so long Don't know what you got till it's gone no Don't know what it is I did so wrong Now I know what I got It's just this song And it ain't easy to get back Takes so long
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Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $3248454	This should be the finishing move on the lump in your throat and let the healing waters run....
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