Is Love worth losing your best friend?

[shyguyms]

Part 1 of this adventure begins here. Shortly after this thread, this user reappeared under a username, but managed to stay under the radar. Until this happened.

I fell in love with my best friend or did i become best friends with the one i loved? hell even im confused.


for almost 6 years i spent all my time with my best friend ,alot of good and bad times that i would not take back for anything in this world but im not sure she feels the same way about it as me and that is killing me inside.


Should i feel the way i do about her now? I mean i will always love her and be grateful for meeting her, but i am so thrilled that she has found someone to love her the way her and her son needs to be loved. I finally came to the conclusion that i could not give her what she needed in life. The other day i seen her and her lil guy with her new man and seeing them i was thinking they all deserve that , they all deserve to be happy and at that moment i knew i had to move on with my life. i was so happy for them all that i cried a happy cry i just hope that someday we can all be friends and take the good out of that past 6 years and i will never forget all that she has done for me and my family.


There is still one thing killing me is that i can't talk to my best friend at a time like this when im dying inside and have noone to talk to.


I miss that in my life and i hope that someday she will feel the same way about me and be my friend , i cannot keep goiong on like this
I NEED MY BEST FRIEND BACK

[SAUTO]

Originally Posted by Dave Lane

Yep I'd say his overplay of confidence is a compensation for his lack thereof.

obviously looking at his picture he has good reason to lack confidence.

[stanleychief]

Originally Posted by DT58HOF

umm it's family, and changes on the years in the company.

Sure you're not:
marty shook
cumberland, md
32 yrs old
who went to Bishop Walsh High School

That picture you linked to of the hummer points to: http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j1...eetzhummer.jpg

if you Google shyguyms, you come up with this page:
http://www1.timesti.aol.com/users/vi...profile/376597

and this youtube page which has chiefs stuff on it:
http://www.youtube.com/shyguyms

[L.A. Chieffan]

im pretty sure dt58hof is a fake name

[RedThat]

Why does it happen here on chiefsplanet where you see a potentially a good thread "ruined" by someone who acts like a dummy? then people seemly have to give attention to dummies(hijackers) on here and then it ruins the threads. I coulda swore this has happened various times around here.

[kstater]

Originally Posted by stanleychief

Sure you're not:
marty shook
cumberland, md
32 yrs old
who went to Bishop Walsh High School

That picture you linked to of the hummer points to: http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j1...eetzhummer.jpg

if you Google shyguyms, you come up with this page:
http://www1.timesti.aol.com/users/vi...profile/376597

and this youtube page which has chiefs stuff on it:
http://www.youtube.com/shyguyms

Nice find on the Shyguyums photobucket account. He's also a sex offender

[splatbass]

Originally Posted by DT58HOF

you jackass thats the company rev, I know what my sailary is,lol
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

You'd think the VP of Operations would be a better speller......

[Bugeater]

Originally Posted by kstater

Nice find on the Shyguyums photobucket account. He's also a sex offender

Interesting that DT58HOF joined three weeks after Shyguyms was outed.

[the Talking Can]

Originally Posted by stanleychief

Sure you're not:
marty shook
cumberland, md
32 yrs old
who went to Bishop Walsh High School

That picture you linked to of the hummer points to: http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j1...eetzhummer.jpg

if you Google shyguyms, you come up with this page:
http://www1.timesti.aol.com/users/vi...profile/376597

and this youtube page which has chiefs stuff on it:
http://www.youtube.com/shyguyms

rep

i tried to warn the poor fella.....say, where'd he go anyways???

[KcMizzou]

Originally Posted by the Talking Can

rep

i tried to warn the poor fella.....say, where'd he go anyways???

Got some fine detectives here at the 'Planet.

Nice work, Stanley.

[Mr. Laz]

Originally Posted by stanleychief

Sure you're not:
marty shook
cumberland, md
32 yrs old
who went to Bishop Walsh High School

That picture you linked to of the hummer points to: http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j1...eetzhummer.jpg

if you Google shyguyms, you come up with this page:
http://www1.timesti.aol.com/users/vi...profile/376597

and this youtube page which has chiefs stuff on it:
http://www.youtube.com/shyguyms

brilliant

[mdstu]

Originally Posted by Laz

brilliant

He obviously only learned half of the lesson from the last beat down.

While he does still show his ass, he at least learned to retreat.

[Mr. Laz]

4881

Name: SHOOK, MARTY DOUGLAS Address: 40 UTAH AVE CUMBERLAND, MD 21502 Address Change Date: 01/30/2007 Charge: SEX OFFENSE 3RD DEGREE (3-307) Category: Sexually Violent Offenders Information Contact: Cumberland Police Department - C3I Date of Birth: 05/16/1976 Age: 32 Status: COMPLIANT Notify me if the status changes

larger picture

[Bugeater]

If I was a mod I would so put that image in his avatar.

[OnTheWarpath15]

Originally Posted by Laz

Awesome...

Anyone know what classifies as a 3rd Degree Sex Offense in Maryland?

Is he diddling little boys, or just flashing them?

[Mr. Laz]

Sexually Violent Offenders - These registrants have been convicted in Maryland of the following offenses (or of comparable offenses if convicted in another state, federal, military, or Native American tribal court) that occurred on or after July 1, 1997 (or before July 1, 1997, if in the custody or under the supervision of a "supervising authority" on October 1, 2001):

• Rape First Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-303)
• Rape Second Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-304)
• Sex Offense First Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-305)
• Sex Offense Second Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-306)
• Sex Offense Third Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-307)
• Attempted Rape First Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-309)
• Attempted Rape Second Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-310)
• Attempted Sexual Offense First Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-311)
• Attempted Sexual Offense Second Degree (Criminal Law Article, § 3-312)
• Assault with Intent to Commit Rape First Degree, Rape Second Degree, Sex Offense First Degree, or Sex Offense Second Degree as prohibited on or before September 30, 1996, under former Article 27, § 12.

Sexually Violent Predators - These registrants have been convicted of a sexually violent offense (listed under Sexually Violent Offenders, above) that occurred on or after July 1, 1997. They have also been determined in accordance with Criminal Procedure Article §§ 11-703, to be at risk of committing a subsequent sexually violent offense.
An individual must register as a sexually violent predator if before moving into this state, the individual was required to register by another state, federal, military, or Native American tribal court every 90 days for life.



§ 3-307. Sexual offense in the third degree.
Prohibited
(a) A person may not:
(1) (i) engage in sexual contact with another without the consent of the other; and
(ii) 1. employ or display a dangerous weapon, or a physical object that the
victim reasonably believes is a dangerous weapon;
2. suffocate, strangle, disfigure, or inflict serious physical injury on the
victim or another in the course of committing the crime;
3. threaten, or place the victim in fear, that the victim, or an individual
known to the victim, imminently will be subject to death, suffocation,
strangulation, disfigurement, serious physical injury, or kidnapping; or
4. commit the crime while aided and abetted by another;
(2) engage in sexual contact with another if the victim is a mentally defective individual, a
mentally incapacitated individual, or a physically helpless individual, and the person
performing the act knows or reasonably should know the victim is a mentally defective
individual, a mentally incapacitated individual, or a physically helpless individual