Reporting someone to CPS

[Titty Meat]

So I have an uncomfortable question to ask- I have a trashy co-worker who's a huge loud mouth bitch. She tells the whole office her business. Usually I just ignore it because I don't care and it's none of my business.

Lately she's been talking about some obnoxious ****ed up shit. She's talked about how she and her bf drive with her kids in the car after they've been drinking "but aren't to the point of being ****ed up" pretty stupid but whatever. Anyway she shares some of the most vile disturbing shit the other day about how she caught her nephew doing sexual stuff with her daughter like finger in the vagina.

I don't want to go to HR about it because it will just get me in trouble. Would I be out of line to report it to CPS? This lady sounds like she has no business having children.

[Katipan]

What are you reporting?

[Titty Meat]

Originally Posted by Katipan

What are you reporting?

The child's welfare parents driving drunk with their kids the little cousin being sexually assaulted by their cousin who stays over with her while the parents are at work

[ptlyon]

If you want a lively conversation, ask her if she likes it up the ass

[lewdog]

You can anonymously report things to CPS. Sadly the system works very slow and obvious signs of neglect/abuse have to occur for much to happen quicker.

[Titty Meat]

Originally Posted by lewdog

You can anonymously report things to CPS. Sadly the system works very slow and obvious signs of neglect/abuse have to occur for much to happen quicker.

Am I an asshole for doing so? I mean it's not my business but when you loudly talk about it infront of everyone WTF

[GeorgeZimZam]

Originally Posted by Titty Meat

Am I an asshole for doing so? I mean it's not my business but when you loudly talk about it infront of everyone WTF

She's the asshole. A huge POS that deprives her kids of the basic welfare they deserve. And goes around talking about it. She's either guilt-ridden to one degree to another, and getting it off her chest/conscience. Or, she's such a POS she thinks it is all good. She probably had a similar upbringing, but that is no justification to drag her own offspring into a shit childhood of their own.

Would you feel worse reporting it, or not reporting it? You deserve to sleep soundly at night, after all.

[Titty Meat]

Originally Posted by lewdog

You can anonymously report things to CPS. Sadly the system works very slow and obvious signs of neglect/abuse have to occur for much to happen quicker.

Originally Posted by GeorgeZimZam

She's the asshole. A huge POS that deprives her kids of the basic welfare they deserve. And goes around talking about it. She's either guilt-ridden to one degree to another, and getting it off her chest/conscience. Or, she's such a POS she thinks it is all good. She probably had a similar upbringing, but that is no justification to drag her own offspring into a shit childhood of their own.

Would you feel worse reporting it, or not reporting it? You deserve to sleep soundly at night, after all.

I guess to answer your question I'm not sure unless I knew what the outcome would be.

I mean usually I don't think family business is strangers business but **** when you put it out there like that. Maybe I grew up in a sheltered home or something but I found what I heard totally disgusting

[lewdog]

Originally Posted by Titty Meat

I guess to answer your question I'm not sure unless I knew what the outcome would be.

I mean usually I don't think family business is strangers business but **** when you put it out there like that. Maybe I grew up in a sheltered home or something but I found what I heard totally disgusting

I'd report what you heard. It's easy and gets this family on record somewhere. That way if the school reports something too, it's going to get escalated much quicker.

Do the right thing.

[threebag]

Originally Posted by Titty Meat

I guess to answer your question I'm not sure unless I knew what the outcome would be.

I mean usually I don't think family business is strangers business but **** when you put it out there like that. Maybe I grew up in a sheltered home or something but I found what I heard totally disgusting

They will probably dismiss what you say, thinking you’re a jilted ex boyfriend who regrets shitting where he eats.

[lewdog]

Originally Posted by Titty Meat

Am I an asshole for doing so? I mean it's not my business but when you loudly talk about it infront of everyone WTF

Might as well report it. That way if something does happen, there's a record on the books of someone being concerned for these children's welfare.

[Why Not?]

Originally Posted by lewdog

Might as well report it. That way if something does happen, there's a record on the books of someone being concerned for these children's welfare.

Correct. Unfortunately, with such vague information (not your fault, Titty) they won't actually do much but they will open a file and her name will be in it. Someone as trashy and as stupid as this person seems to be will **** something else up for her kids down the line and they will be more apt to do something if they already have a file.

[Titty Meat]

Originally Posted by Why Not?

Correct. Unfortunately, with such vague information (not your fault, Titty) they won't actually do much but they will open a file and her name will be in it. Someone as trashy and as stupid as this person seems to be will **** something else up for her kids down the line and they will be more apt to do something if they already have a file.

Thanks there's other stuff I want to leave out as this is a public message board but you get the gist

[ptlyon]

Originally Posted by lewdog

Might as well report it. That way if something does happen, there's a record on the books of someone being concerned for these children's welfare.

And his own conscience

[BryanBusby]

Originally Posted by Titty Meat

Am I an asshole for doing so? I mean it's not my business but when you loudly talk about it infront of everyone WTF

You would be an asshole for not making that report IMO