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Originally Posted by kcchiefsfanGoJC
Is it possible to have a best friend who is the opposite sex?
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It sounds like you know this, but it is a TRAIN WRECK. The only way it works is if both people don't find the other hot. But most of the time both men and women are shallow enough that we really don't like to hang out with guys and girls we don't find hot as much as the ones we do. In a situation where there are two people who are fun to be around, one being hot and one not, we ALWAYS pick the hot one. But this ends up fucking over the friendship in the end.
Genetically, we were not meant to socialize with each other. That's not to say its impossible, its just not our primary motive of sex, which always ends up getting in the way.
BTW, having a friend with benefits is still a sexual relationship that extends beyond friendship. So IMO this is not applicable to this situation.