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Originally Posted by badgirl
I will do it, but I just wanted some input on a way to go about it without being hurtful. I really don't expect people off Chiefsplanet to come to my home and fix it.
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You don't have to be hateful about it. Just tell her that you'd like to sit down, face to face, and chat. Just tell her that you understand what she's going through (she did just break up with someone, right), but that, while you want to do what you can to help her out, you cannot put yourself in harms way (financially, sacrificing your privacy, etc). Tell her that you do not want her to end up feeling responsible if that should happen. Then, go over some things that she can do to help her prevent herself from doing that to you. Telling someone what they need to hear is not mean in the long run.
I feel like I went in circles there, so it must be past my bedtime.