Dude... **** that!. You have to develop some fuggin swagger about yourself. And you for damn sure aint going to get it over the Internet.
Has it ever occurred to you that you're probably socially weird and need to develop a sense of interaction with people?
Chalk it up as a blow job from a hot chick and there's plenty more where that came from?
"Nice dinner", oozes "clingy/moving too fast".
Get a BJ and next time reward her by going down on her. If she wants to
you 3+ times then that's when you start making plans to GRADUALLY do nice things.
Anything less than 3-4 times is just a bootycall and that's it (no matter how fine/sexy/hot she is).
SWAGGER UP!