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Originally Posted by KChiefsQT
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Saw this in another thread and it reminded me of some earlier posts I had in it....and well, it is quite worthy of a bump any time anyhow.
My lovely wife brought up the boob job thing again a few weeks ago, and although I've tread lightly on the subject before and tried to match her seriousness or jokingness, this time I thought I might up the ante a little and show a little more interest in her doing so in the future to try and help her get past just thinking it would be cool and advance to talking it over more seriously to see if it is something she would really want.
Well, it bit me in the ass.
She didn't seem peeved at the time, just talked about it a little and then let the subject die...which was what I was aiming for so as to just help some of the thoughts fester to talk more about it next time. But, that night in bed when I tried to get a little action she tossed the earlier conversation back in my face and stone walled me. I can't remember what she said exacly now, but it was something along the lines of "With the interest you showed with the boob talk earlier you wouldn't be interested in what I've got anyhow."
Danger - Danger - abort - abort - man defensive positions -
Needless to say, I backed off the action and tried to dig myself out of the hole I was apparently in by saying that that wouldn't be and isn't needed for me to find her attactive, I just thought it was something she has shown interest in, and I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't have interest too, but it is by far nothing that I see as a NEED. Blah....still some weeks later and I still think she is kind of keeping me in a brownie point deficit.
Anyhow...still love this thread, but think I better let her come around on it herself instead of helping share interest in it myself...damnit.