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Just for the record, I don't show my boobs because I respect my husband AND I respect myself and my body. I'm not owned and I'm not in an insecure relationship. Sully's issue is one of me making him look like a jack ass.
I don't show my boobs because I think I'm ugly or my boobs aren't great, I love them and use them well. It's not because I'm jealous of Kara, I have absolutely no reason to be, as I am beautiful and smart and don't need to be in competition with anyone.
I simply think that my body is my gift to share with whom I want, when I want. I think women use their bodies far too much to get a response and approval from men. I know some find that empowering and I'm not going to judge it, but personally, I think it's time women see their bodies in a different light. I work with young men and women on this issue, so it has become a passionate issue of mine. It has to do with who YOU see yourself as and some own that and show themselves off for good reasons, but others do it for reasons that are self deprecating rather then empowering.
I love to look at the naked female. I have no qualms about it and I'm sure Kara did not do this for self deprecating reasons. But there are lines, moral lines for me and they have to do with who you are respecting in your decisions. Ultimately it is up to you and what you do with your body and whether we like it or not, part of making that decision includes the people we love and who love us back.
now bump her boobs and let's get back to this issue of whether she made the right choice in the placement of them? My fear is that they will look like socks with balls at the end of them when she's 70?
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