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Originally Posted by ChiTown

I'm going to say something very un-manly...........

GoChiefs, until you find the right girl, the sex IS generally going to feel pretty unfulfilled.

I was pretty much a male slut for the first 28 years of my life. I had one mission: drain my pipe & move on down the road. What I found out was that I was completely unhappy with that lifestyle because it never MEANT anything. I could have sex with Double Mint Girls, but it was only good for a story and a nice memory. Sex will truly mean something when you find someone that is worth sharing yourself with. Until then, it will be nice, but never great.

Happy hunting.

THat's right on, and I think it's like anything else. I was in the same boat for almost the same amount of time (29 years for me). You know, you go out to eat or to the movies or parties or have sex with a variety of women. And you may have fun doing those things in a date scenario, even for more than a year or two, but at the end of the day you're sitting alone at home wanting something more. And then you do those things with someone who you REALLY love, and every one of those acts has a different feel. Hell, even grocery shopping is more special.

Sex is fun. It's like driving nice car. If it's someone else's it's fun for the time, but then you have to go home and not get to drive it till your friend invites you over again. When that car is YOURS and you can drive it anytime you want (well, most anytime you want), and you take care of that car, and love it, then driving it is amazing.