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Originally Posted by luv
Nah, looks wise, I'm a solid 6.5. Personality, probably an 8.5. I'm working on the looks. Over 1/4 of the way there!
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This has to be a personal scale. No way is this a global scale.
So, you personally think that you are only a little better than average.
Oh ho hum. She's not horrible, but she's no better than most everyone else.
So you lose weight. I'm so happy for your progress, but where is that going to put you on your scale? Is it sliding depending on how much you lose?
I guess my point is your scale for yourself does you no good. No one is going to immediately use your scale to determine where you stand on theirs. So defining yourself as merely slightly better than average... Gosh Luv, you're just setting yourself up for every guy to accept your decision in the matter and classify you as slightly better than average too.
Every man that ever loved me thought I was a 10 at one point. I bet I'm a -4 on some of those same scales afterwards. You can weigh 100 lbs and its not going to automatically make you hot. Thats gotta come from within. And it sure isn't going to come from you thinking you're just a little better than ugly.