Well, we're quite a bit different in motivation. You give the impression that you're looking for something, whereas I'm satisfied with where I am. Compromising is going to be a more natural reaction in your case than in mine. You want change; I don't.
As for my list, I think it may be easier for me to know specifically what I want because I don't actually 'want' anything. What I wrote is essentially a laundry list of the characteristics it would take to get me to change my mind about the viability of a relationship. The reality (and irony) is that even if I did find somebody who fit that list, I wouldn't match what she's looking for.
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