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Originally Posted by Katipan

Yessss. This man would do anything for any child. Children love love love him. And yet he's sexy in a cage fight. We'll spar together and he lets me attack him with everything I've got. No bare knuckles to the face tho, the first couple times we went to work with bruises on our cheekbones, stopped that.... But when the times comes and he wants to end it, he flips me over like I'm tiny and I'm immediately tapping out.

The first time we had a disagreement, I cursed as is my natural inclination to do... And he just stopped, looked at me and said "is cursing at me really necessary?"

... I felt like I was 9.

My ex husband probably would have smacked me. Ex boyfriends probably would have cursed back. Course, now that I typed all that out, it looks kind of silly, but it was an ah-ha moment for me.

I'm fully in the cuss back camp. I enjoy cussing, if you haven't noticed. I can't go 5 minutes without saying **** something. Phone calls to my conservative christian parents can be a challenging exercise in thinking before I open my mouth.

I never get physical, but I do like a good fight now and then.

Now that I've gushed about him, I just want to add. You "not" knowing me so well is a total turn on.

Hey, we all like it when somebody is paying attention to the things we say. Even crusty old bachelors like me.