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Originally Posted by KC Fish
Good grief dude... you are a disaster...
Quit worrying about what you think women are looking for. That's irrelevant and futile. Go open a window and shout to the world that you know nothing about women. Get that off your chest. Accept it. Embrace it. Then start being yourself instead of what you're picturing the ideal male as. Women are generally attracted to confident men. A back and forth attitude or apprehension on how you act is a red flag that you're not confident with who you are. A confident man doesn't give a shit what that particular women may be looking for.
You're trying waaaaay too hard. You can't be what "they" want you to be. That's not how it works. When you quit trying, you might find a girl admiring you for the right reasons... Until then you'll continue to look like a clueless amateur that's trying to be Fabio, but coming off as a Woody Allen character...
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So how do I become perfect or close to it?