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Originally Posted by JOhn
Anyone worth having isn't that shallow
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While there's a hint of truth to what you say, it's mostly clueless.
Most people who would be worth having are enough worth having that they can be somewhat choosy about who has them. Some people are so worth having that they can be very choosy.
If you're in a competition for someone who can be choosy, you need to compete on every front available. Looks are important because that's probably the most obvious factor that your choosy target will be able to detect. You can be a terrible parent or terrible at planning for retirement, but those things might not become obvious for quite some time. If you look terrible (not saying that luv is in this category), it's obvious from the get go. You've got to at least present yourself in a package that will get over the winnowing threshold of the choosy guy you're trying to land.