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Originally Posted by luv
And when you're not attractive? Self-esteem aside.
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Either way, I think a lot of it has to do with self esteem. The reason I included that was because, as someone with a face made for radio, it was incredibly surprising to hear someone ask that kind of question who could walk into a bar/nightclub/Mensa meeting and leave with a guy of their choice (and frankly, a little annoying
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Other reasons? I wouldn't have a clue... my freshman roommate's girlfriend had lived on a farm all her life and was incredibly naive. It was the only reason I could come up with as to why she stayed with the douche. She did all of his laundry, cleaned, cooked, etc... and he was still a douche. She just didn't know any better.
I'm in the group that's saying "just don't be a doormat," which to a 'nice guy' means "be a little bit of an asshole". Low self esteem is the only reason I can come up with as to why anyone would stay with someone that's an asshole to the point of being abusive (physically or otherwise).