Originally Posted by J-Town Fan 1988

In general terms, I don't think so. My reasoning is they may not want to hurt my feelings or whatever and they lack the cajones to tell me "Thanks, but you're not my type" to my face.

In specific terms, I'm still at a loss as to why a girl shows interest in me; we chill at her place for hours just talking. Then everythin gets twisted as a hug (I didn't suggest) turns into an extended make-out session (all I said was "Can I?" and before I could finish with my planned buss on the cheek, she grabbed me), then after that night she's said nothing more than a handful fo brief sentences to me. I can take being a horrible kisser, but I'd at least like to know that I am!