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Originally Posted by crayzkirk
Since I classify as a fossil, over 65, I can say that in my younger years with a sister four years younger than me, there was a lot of opportunity when I was 21 and they were wanting me to buy the liquor and were very friendly. I think it's pretty normal for men, who are more visual than women, IMO, to look at attractive, young women. My own experience has been that if you are an above attractive male, this is okay, and if you are not, it's considered creepy.
Our society is based primarily on attractiveness and more attractive people are given the benefit of the doubt.
In high school, there were a number of 20 something women who were teacher's assistants. Expecting 18 year old men to not pursue them seems to contradict biology. We are after all, mammals and reproduction is one of our main purposes.
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21 and 17 is completely fine considering your relationship with the girls. What's not fine is a woman/man that is supposed to be teaching these kids, but instead decides to **** them. I don't care if the teacher is 22 and the student is 18 it's wrong because of the power dynamics and what it could lead to if these rules aren't in place.
Creeps would take advantage of that all day long if it weren't illegal. If you can't help but **** the students in the school you are teaching at, then you shouldn't be a teacher.