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Originally Posted by Katipan
The argument that a man is less of a man because he wears pink draws on the idea that women are less strong. There are times id agree.
I've had 4 CSections, 2 with no painkillers afterwards. Went to work a week later. I was almost 40.
I think I like the internet because I can identify the little bitches much easier. They like to hide it in public.
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There are two very different types of strength. Women tend to have one and men the other.
If it were up to men to have kids every family would have one. At most. Men aren't as resilient long term. At some point there must be action, some finality, one way or the other.
It's why men sometimes snap one day and why their suicide rates are 4x higher. We understand the trade off - that some things must be endured - but there's a limit before the mind itself becomes weak. Men tend to change and adapt, often in negative ways, to these long term negatives. Women do as well but not as poorly and with more of themselves intact.
I've been completely amazed at times how some women have gone through things and not ended themselves or others. Surely, at some point, I would have done one or the other. It takes a very strong person to endure suffering and not lose your morality. To not lose the core of who you are.