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Originally Posted by Hootie 2.0
no girl is going to ever be ok until you're ok with yourself
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i've explained this also.
Consciousness is translucent.
When you're talking to someone you don't actively see yourself, nor do you really think about yourself. You only think and see them.
Insecurity can only hurt you in so much as you avoid social situations because of it.
As long as you're actively engaging in social situations(obviously im not talking about my insecurities) then lack of self esteem should not hurt you.
Also for the first year I did this, I was not insecure. The insecure is me reflecting upon my failures as well as noticing patterns among guys who do and don't get girls.