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Originally Posted by xztop123
No it's not. Thats the definition of validation (getting the girl when other guys are trying to too) yes i know i've just created a paradox because im giving credence to something that I just complained about
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Your biggest problem is your lack of self-esteem. You said it yourself: you need to get the girl the other guys want in order to validate yourself.
Women can sense that. They reject you because you've already rejected yourself. You undoubtedly come across as needy and really kind of as a whiney bitch when you talk to girls. Girls don't want to hear you tell them what a loser you are.
Your other problem was identified by Count Zarth. You obviously didn't understand it, so I will repeat it for you: STOP HITTING ON THE HOTTEST GIRLS IN THE BAR. There are girls in the bar who would be happy to go home with you and let you frack the living shit out of them. Perfect your game with them, then move up to the hotter chicks.