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Originally Posted by Phobia
There's no doubt you've seen this, especially with people in the past year. I've had people accusing me of favorable treatment my entire tenure. So when I treat people like bugeater and frazod (who have both been to my house) the same as I treat everybody else when they abuse rep and then we're no longer friends because of it, I'm going to have an attitude about it. I don't have time to coddle assholes and it's not in my job description whatsoever. I was a whole lot kinder a decade ago, no doubt. But I'm not bending over for people like bugeater and frazod when they show me zero respect as a friend first and foremost and as a leader on this site. Their behavior hurt me at first but now I'm a little cavalier about it. That's probably a defense mechanism.
If I'm arrogant about anybody else, I don't know why. I don't have the desire to change people's minds once they've made them up. I'm tired of the lies and the accusations. Those people still insist I read their private messages. I've never once read anybody's private messages. But try to convince them of that.
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Why do you keep saying I had some major beef with you bottoming out my rep when I've already told you more than once that isn't the case at all? I know I made one snarky comment to you about it early on, and then after I checked my rep history and saw that I had hit the guy 90+ times I acknowledged that was excessive. I never complained about it at all after that.
And as far as the PMs, maybe you really can't read them and the post you made that reflected something that was discussed via PM was an amazing coincidence. I don't know, but I do know that I'm not the only one who questions the integrity of the PM system.