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I hate to do this but
I recently started work but till i get my first check i need help for rent. If you can help out that be great.
https://venmo.com/u/Brad-Essex-3 would be faster then the other link PLEASE I JUST NEED 122$ left please help |
Where are you working at, Nut?
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Done. All the best to you, Brad!
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I'm working at red state but it monthly payments and until i get a hold of the accounting i can't get direct deposit
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Thank chi town i appreciate it
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If you ever need any help with social security, give me a shout. I've had a lot of experience helping people who need it qualify for SSI. Even if you're working that boost from SSI can really help. |
I was actually turned down for social security they told me i was not disabled enough even though my hands shake when i overworked i have the legs pain from the cerebral palsy plus the somewhat bad eyesights and bad hearing but nope not disabled enough plus regular office job you need to type a certain wpm and that hard with my disability.
The worst thing is i worked for a couple of companies despite being qualified for management positions i was never offered a chance to be promoted yet i had a coworker who the week before got arrested yet i was told to keep quiet while she got a promotion. Some days i feel like giving up and be a bum because no one see my talents. Why should i care but this job i can work on a article promote it then go to the pool and not deal with my legs spasms. I felt pretty useless |
Can I get some cash too? I want to give it to Nut
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Ill send some your way when I get paid tomorrow. Hang in there nut you got this
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Nut, I'd love to help you but I'm so broke I'm jacking off my dog to feed the cat!
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Sent.
Hope you’re ok, big dog. |
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Props to you. |
Have you considered starting an OF page Nut? Just to get you by
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DeBerg looking to check out some big nasty KC nuts
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Only fans lol no the ladies can't handle these nuts. lol
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Happy to chip in for an OG member. Hope things work out for you.
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I can teach you how to beat shitty people at poker for $25 an hour in about a week. More if you get good.
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Thank you all this have been very stressful for me especially since i keep replaying in my head how all these other jobs treated me like shit yet i always did what they asked me to do. Someday i actually cried because why they treated me like that. I don't talk that much i only focused on my job.
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Almost there this help me focus on my writing so thank again for the help.
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Go ahead and break them off a piece of the remix choo choo
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I almost there for the rent any little bit help and thank you.
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ok I'm 244$ away from my rent being paid any amount can help thank you
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hey if you want to venmo me instead send here https://venmo.com/u/Brad-Essex-3 I'm 244 away from paying my rent
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ok I'm at 925 I almost there to pay the rent so please help.
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https://venmo.com/u/Brad-Essex-3 so i can get the money faster because it take 3 business days to send the money from the other site
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ok I'm just 122 dollars away from paying my rent off please help me.
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Never be ashamed about asking for help.
We’re a community, Chiefs Nation. I’m also between jobs or I’d send. Best of luck! |
PLEASE HELP I'M JUST 122$AWAY FROM PAYING MY RENT PLEASE HELP.
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Nut get out there and hustle up $12. You can do it!
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“I hate to do this butt” would have gotten more responses from this crowd.
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there are 14,876 members if you all send one dollar to the link above i can be focused on work and not worrying about the rent so please help
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Ok. This is getting a little uncomfortable.
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You say you are in Tulsa, OK and have Cerebral Palsy. Here is a link that will help you in a job search with your disability in mind: https://www.okdrs.gov/guide/drs-vr
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fat elvis thank you but i have a job now but it a monthly check. And i just started working.
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Like I said I'm not forcing you to help me but it could really help tilli get my first check at the end of this month.
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What’s the new job like, B-Rad? What it is you do exactly?
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Can you donate plasma? Biolife in ba is running a 700$ first month special. 80$ on the first visit. 100 on the second.
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Nut, you have a car?
Could you do door dash or uber to get you going with a little extra? |
dont have venmo..any other small donation possibilities
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I know you're writing for Red State. Honestly I don't know if that's a reliable source of income. It very well may be and if so, I'll eat my plate of crow. However I'd look at that as more of a hobby than what pays the bills every month. It sounds like you've got yourself some good people in your corner, and you've gotten an good head start with these folks generous donations. Find yourself a reliable source of income. Like starting tomorrow morning. If you don't, you're going to be in the same spot a month from now. Good luck. |
If I'm you, I'm taking everything I have to the landlord with proof of more to come from Red State... you're gonna kick me out for $120 that you can provide next week?
Your landlord will most likely listen to reason Go talk to your landlord, it can all be worked out most likely |
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First no car second I tried the looking for a job thing I was turned down by a lot of places i applyed at home depot told we will find a place here for you a few weeks later well you going to have to apply again. plus when they see my hands shaking they tend to freak out about it. I can't type over 25 wpm because computer jobs your expected to type that fast Also unemployment benifit i can't get to them because phone lines busy when i call them and going online the unemployment site is down.
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i wish to god i didn't have this disease cerebral palsy is the bane of my existence Yet people think I'm lazy yet who going outside in the extreme cold to clean the smokehole who out in the heat collecting carts it's me. I have to pay for it by getting sick from pain pains, gallbladder, kidney stone, ibs yet everybody ignores me or won't even give me a promotion or raise. I try to be the hard worker but i'm tired of dealing woth those people.
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I know it sucks getting passed over for a promotion or raise, but you've gotta pay the bills somehow. You mention the unemployment phone line is a long wait and the website is down. Have you been down to the office? |
I’d be rattling the phones before I rattled the can. I get the frustration with some services, but it has to feel better than worrying about rent and food and stuff. I hope RedState can provide what you need.
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I haven't been to the office but they probably put me in a menial job like all my other jobs I can only do so much.
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I have trouble with employment because of depression but I was told to shut the **** up by a lawyer when I tried to get disability. He told me to lose weight and get to work
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If you haven't had a lot of luck with Voc Rehab, you might try your local Workforce Center. They can help you match your strengths to jobs in your community. Looks like OK Voc Rehab is currently using Order of Selection, which is basically a waiting list for their services--in Order of Selection, people with more significant disabilities are prioritized for ongoing supports and services than those folks with less significant disabilities. I don't know how significantly your disability impacts your activities of daily living (ADL), but if you are ever assessed again (people seeking disability benefits are often assessed on an annual basis), be honest with your assessor and let them know what your "bad" days are like. People often under report the significance of their disability due to the stigmas surrounding disability. |
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I justwish people understand why I'm so hesitant to get back to job like walmart or taco bell or lowes. Not only dealing with asshole bosses but the injuries this was from taco bueno since then i got hepatitis A kidney stones twices gallbladder surgery back strain and legs bruise
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How about being one of those spark shoppers for Walmart? Delivery driver? There are a bunch of hustles that you could do along with RedState. Door Dash, Grub Hub and some other shit too. Hope you get figured out and not have to stress about it. Praying for you nut.
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Maybe apply to be a door greeter at Wal-Mart? I see those folks sitting on stools frequently, so that would be easier than manual labor.
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I was fired from wal mart i was actually yelled at for trying to sit down when i had to fill in as a greeter a few times.
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Praying for you nut.
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You have shot down most if not all of the job opportunities people have suggested to you. You can't get through to the unemployment office, you can't work a job because of various reasons you've listed. As Fat Elvis said, maybe you need to be reevaluated for the level of disability you're facing. Be honest with the person doing the interview. Hell, go to your doctor and have them evaluate you. If it truly is this severe, I fail to see how you don't qualify for at least some SSI money. Nut, you may have an disability, but you've got a lot of good things going for you too. You've got to do your part or you're going to fall into an endless cycle of not being able to pay your bills and the kindness of people on the internet is going to wane if you aren't trying to help yourself |
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Another idea, get a 3rd shift job watching security monitors at a business somewhere. Those guys get to sit there all night.
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Well it not like that if you seen me you would understand why i have turned down someone of your job ideas Like i could drive but i get fatigued when i'm doing physical activity like my hands start shaking or my legs spasms my disability is in a way is like a schoginzer cat half crippled and not crippled. You should've seen my boss when i held a knife at work one day and my hands was shaking like i was a meth addict
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Good Luck, nut
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What qualifications or formal evidence of training do you have to get jobs that are not menial in nature? Do you have any degrees or certificates or anything?
A growing trend now is vocational certificates. They don't take as long as getting a degree, but you go and get some specific training and you get a certificate showing that you're qualified for a job. It seems like it's a great way to get your foot in the door in different fields that might hold more long-term financial promise for you. One bit of career advice that I'm often foisting on people is to ignore the cute saying of "don't do something 8 hours a day that you don't love". The optimal goal is not to seek happiness for 8 hours a day. The optimal goal is to be happy for 24 hours a day. Find a job that will make you happiest for 24 hours a day (e.g., paying bills, saving money, funding vacations, etc.), even if it's not fun or sexy. |
Or what about a call center job? I worked 3rd shift in the billing department of a large company once. Very few people were calling in about their bills at 3 AM. I got paid to sit there and read. It was a great job for someone in my position at that time.
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I went to a computer college in 98' They told me that because of my low wpm I would not be qualified for any tech based jobs they have like data entry, customers service or other. Plus with my cerebral palsy i couldn't be able to do jobs that are heavy lifting. I was thinking of doing a substack to profile more pf my writing
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Sent you a PM.
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