Stupid, Stupid, Stupid !!!!!
 

A woman I met when I was selling cars at Nissan who I kinda made friends with practically moved herself in with me, by saying "I may have to use your spare bedroom for a while", well I felt sorry for her and let her.

She has been at my house for one week and its driving me nuts, for one she only has a part time job and I told her you need to start looking for a better job so you can start saving money.

If I was in this position I would be pounding the pavement everyday looking for something and start looking to move, but she hasn't. Now I don't know what to do. I mention something everyday about her needing to find a better job and how after she starts to work she should be able to save in a month or so to move.

She even acts like she has the time to be particular about where she moves.
Damn I don't know what to do cause I keep feeling that I am supporting her I beleive we may not be friends much longer, it may end badly.


What should I do and how should I go about doing it?:(

Yes, you are.

Is she hot?

You should probably make out with her.

This, and if so, this thread is worthless without pics.

Give her a certain amount of time to at least start actively looking for a better job, after that send her packin

Is she hot? pics?



and yes, you are quite stupid.

You've just inadvertently picked up a parasite. Enjoy.

Not really.

Can you describe her to us?

Damn, I wanted pics.

ROFL

Who doesn't have a camera on their cellphone these days?
She could snap a few photos of her when she's not paying attention and then post them here in this thread... so we can know exactly we're dealing with here.

I not only hate the fact of supporting her but she is really invading my privacy. I knew I would hate having someone there, but I didn't know what to do at the time. she caught me off guard and kinda invited herself.

I think we all know what we're dealing with here.

I am looking for a solution to get rid of her, maybe if one of you guys want her I have found my answer.

A couple fatties?

So you allowed her to move in. Does she pay her bills?

Well this has to be the stupidest thing I have ever done to allow this to happen, I work too damn hard for what I have to allow someone to step in and invade my space and my home.:mad:

I pay all the bills, its my house, I have to keep my bills paid either way. She has only been there a week, but I paid my rent last friday, she got paid on tuesday and didn't offer me anything. she makes less in a month than I pay in rent.

Who? I know your are not talking about me. I am not in the mood for this subject of fat.

Which of the following best describes her tittahs?

1. (.)(.)

2.(.)(.)

3.(.)(.)

If i let someone move in with me, i want them to pay some bills.

Now you sound like you did this out of the kindness of your heart. You can't be naggin the crap out of her after only 1 week.

:spock:

Are you hot? You 2 should make out and take pics.

Go to a thrift store. Put $10 into a piece of luggage. Pack her stuff. Call a cab. Put $20 in her hand and wish her well.

It will be the best $30 you ever spent.

Ok let me give you a little history, I have known her for 3 years in which time she has lived with her boyfriend, who died, then moved in with her brother for over a year, then he made her leave ( I don't know the whole story) then moved in with as old woman as a live in sitter, then moved in with this guy she met on the net for like 2 mos. then he ran her off and she moved in with me. Yea I did feel sorry for her, but she is my age and she should face life and realize nothing is free and you can't just be living off someone. I am afraid if I don't stay on her she will think she can stay right on and on the way it is and never move out until it has to end badly. I really don't want that to happen, but I will not be taken advantage of.

This. I know some people are total dicks, but what you gotta do is ask her what her plans are and tell her how you feel about the situation. If you dont then, its all your fault. If its only been a week, she's not really mooching a damned thing yet. NOw after a month or so and she gives you jack shit, then bitch you gotta go.

Again, sit and talked to her ask her what she intends to do. Dont beat around the bush. Just tell her, i am not doing this to be an ass, but you gotta know what you are going to do. Just talk to her like a human being about things. Its not hard.

Gee, you didn't think that the fact that everyone else running her out was a huge red flag? This woman isn't your friend, she's a goddamn leech.

Now can we discuss her boobies?

Phobia's right on the money here (pardon the pun).

It cost me over 2000 dollars to stay the first night in my house, I didn't get a month in advance before I moved in. I paid upfront. She is home more than me using water and electric that would not be used if she wasn't there.

Does she know you're this pissed about the situation?

Yea I think I will do that tomorrow, I feel I need to set some kind of time limit on her length of stay.

I am not pissed as much as scared that she will not try to find a better job and save to leave and things will end badly.

Does she know this?

Yep. Also, setting a deadline gives her incentive to find a full-time job more quickly.

That sounds awful from her side. But, since it's your place you can offer parameters. Like helping out via rent & utilities. Since it's been a week, im surprised ur this upset.

I talk to her about finding a job and how she should think about getting her life straight for her own good. She want to talk about the guy she broke up with, that she was with like 2 mos. all the time. I told her she had more important things to be thinking about like getting a job and finding her a place to call her own. I talk to her about things like that. Hoping she catches the hint without me being mean.

Something I've learned...

Never let anyone stay/move in with you without setting guidelines. You'll get walked all over.

If you don't set guidelines, then you have no reason to complain, because you asked for it, whether you were just trying to be nice or not.

No one here can remedy the situation other than you.

Show some compassion, but get to parameters that you would like

I see a set of balls in both your futures
hair balls

Well what adds to it is I feel she has no respect for my privacy. My boyfriend and I were finally off the weekend at the same time. We left saturday and went to town and thinking she would be gone when I got back. I told her we had plans for the weekend. We came back and she was still sitting there and I had to tell her that she needed to find somewhere to go. I do not think I needed to tell her this, she had time in advance to know me and him had plans and wanted to be alone. If she would respect my life and the fact its my house it wouldn't be so bad, but I feel she doesn't do that.

Sometimes, people don't catch hints. Hell, sometimes people don't get things whenever you smack them in the head with a 2x4. Can't make everyone like you all the time.

In all seriousness, you need to choose your "friends" better, just from the little information you've provided I've already identified her as a loser. A real friend wouldn't pull shit like this, and I guaran****ingtee she will milk this as long as you let her.

I will do it, but I just wanted some input on a way to go about it without being hurtful. I really don't expect people off Chiefsplanet to come to my home and fix it.

Don't take this the wrong way, but you sound like you suck.

Jesus ****ing christ Badgirl, she obviously has no goddamn concern for your feelings, so why the hell should you worry about hers?

If I sucked, she wouldn't be there to start with. I have given her a nice clean comfortable place to stay, but all she needs to do is show me she is trying for herself. I don't care to help those who help themselves as it goes. But she makes 425.00 a MONTH. I pay more than that in rent. I just want her to find a better paying job so she can save enough to find her own place. What grown woman wouldn't want that without being forced into it.

You don't have to be hateful about it. Just tell her that you'd like to sit down, face to face, and chat. Just tell her that you understand what she's going through (she did just break up with someone, right), but that, while you want to do what you can to help her out, you cannot put yourself in harms way (financially, sacrificing your privacy, etc). Tell her that you do not want her to end up feeling responsible if that should happen. Then, go over some things that she can do to help her prevent herself from doing that to you. Telling someone what they need to hear is not mean in the long run.

I feel like I went in circles there, so it must be past my bedtime.

Then why offer? If you're going to rip someone cramping your style after staying at your place after only one week, then maybe you shouldn't have offered in the first place.

Someone who's never had to do it.

Never let someone stay in my apt? Yah, sure.

Damn she is a 44 year old woman she knows right from wrong and how to show respect, she should have known that from day one. If I was having to stay with someone, I would show respect from day one and appreciation.

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Couple of old, lonely bags living together, eh?

Be careful what you wish for.

You'd think so, but people who have never had anything of their own, have no idea what it takes to have anything of their own.

Yes, she should have, but she obviously doesn't, and probably never will.

I know!

Just tell her that your place is haunted................













eh?

I was hoping this would work out
but I can see it won't and us remain friends
goodbye -PS It's me

Oh no....looks like you're gonna have to put your foot down. Honestly, I've made this mistake once and ended up wanting to throw the bitch out by the end of the month. You have to acknowledge the fact that you were doing her a favor by letting her stay with you but that it isn't permanent. Give her a "OUT" date...seriously.

ROFL

You know I saw the thread and instantly knew it was Badgirl.
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I'm getting horny just reading this thread. Desperate woman needing a place to live. I want pics. She can stay with me if she gives head. If she was selling cars she can't be bad looking. They wouldn't let a dog do that and drive customers away.
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I'll bet that this bitch won't even open her own orange juice without your help.

When she showers how long does she take in there? Does she use a lot of soap? Does she lather it up real good and rub it all over?
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Is there any chance she looks like Angie Harmon? Or Jennifer Aniston? Or Jilly?
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Wow planet, you sure are slipping. The obvious answer is... wait for it.... ANTIFREEZE!

If she establishes residence there, you'll have to go through the eviction process to get rid of her.

There are people who go through life bleeding people dry as long as they can and then once they have gotten all they can, they move on to the next. Once she establishes residency, she can call the cops on you if you try to throw her out. You'll have to go to court and start the eviction process just like any landlord who has to eject a bad tenant.

Time is short. Hurry. And good luck.

Don't Ever let someone move their stuff into your house unless they are family, or a lifelong friend.
This is what will always happen.

I would try raping her. She most likely will pack her belongings and leave.

This. Just treat her like you treat your patients and she will leave. Refuse to open that damn orange juice!

Watch "Pacific Heights" with Michael Keaton and Matthew Modine. It will make you feel better.
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yup....try to dyke out with her and bet she bolts.

When she gets home tonight greet her with a candlelight dinner dressed all in saran wrap. Wait a second I have to vomit in my mouth a little bit.
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Well, maybe now you know how the rest of us feel since you've set up residence at Chiefsplanet.

Ever see the movie Single White Female?

You see I picture Badgirl being the crazy nut. Only a lot older.
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while you're at work, not serving orange juice, she's at your house, drinking your orange juice.
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take naked pics of her. Of course you will have to include naked pics of you just so she isn't suspicious. Then tell her you will post them on the internet if she doesn't leave. Then post them anyway.

you know the lady that Roy Munson eats out in kingpin? these two ladys make her look good.

Hi Gloria. Just tell her your boyfriend got kicked out of his apartment and is moving in with you on Dec. 1. So she needs to make other arrangements by Nov. 25.