He's just trying to get you to notice him.

Not bad. Just high maintenance.

I think this thread would be easier to follow if someone would put up the supporting cast.

Something like:

Clint - - M
Mer - - F
Etc.

If you don't know what gender someone is what they say isn't as funny. This is supposet to be a funny read, right?

While you successfully guessed their respective gender, Mer is a female with some male attributes and Clint, well...

:shrug:


"Hey, honey...would mind not acting like you want to screw the entire nation?"

"Jeez, you're such a high-maintenance prima donna!"


How does that work? High maintenance??

I don't think it's so much what you do, but what your SO's comfort level is. It's ok if you're not exceeding their comfort level. If you are, then it's not right.

Both just have to have clearly defined limits. BD gets along fine with his situation. I couldn't deal with that. As long as you two communicate and get on the same plane as far as expected behavior there is room for lots of different attitudes and tolorance levels.

Is that what happened?

Of course not.

I'm just trying to figure out how not being in favor of online flirting equals "high maintenance".

N00bs should be banned from this thread.

why do women say, "I'd never do a threesome, I'm not bisexual....except for (Enter Hot Chick's Name)."

Isn't that kind of hypocritical? :hmmm:


I, personally, would never do another guy, no matter who it is.

Nor would I participate in a thressome just because it's Brad Pitt or whomever.


Proves all women are bisexual, just to different degrees.

Because it's been a problem in your relationship for as long as I've known you have one. So it's being rehashed and discussed and bitched about. I'm assuming in real life too. I really don't think you 2 live only on the Internet.

So the girl has to hear you whine about this. She has to start hiding stuff from you just so she doesn't have to hear you whine. She has to make sure every little word and thing she says and does doesn't in some way flick your angry man switch. Sounds like a fun way to spend the afternoon on the Internet.

Then she gets to watch you bitch about her in front of everyone.

I mean. Hypothetically.

I think the answer to that question is, "because you're not getting it done." And I'm not talking about you specifically... I'm talking in general terms.

In studying communication, there is a principle that has always stuck with me with regards to relationships... It stands true for any relationship, whether it be co-workers, boss-employee, husband-wife... You name it... It simply stated as this: in any relationship where one side perceives a deficit in the relational exchange, that side will (conciously or unconciously) endeavor to achieve balance.

Good to see the grab-ass thread is still going strong.

Is that what he's trying to say...because you know, when he goes into his tirades, he doesn't exactly speak english..ROFL

I smoke quite a bit of pot.

No where near enough to consistently read your posts.