Let's say you're really interested in a woman for more than sex. Do you really want to date someone who's willing to put out on the first date? I just think that seems kind of trashy.

Why?

This.

People talk a big game sometimes, though.

I'm pretty sure SK went on this date because he and this girl share common interests and could be friends. I don't think he went out with her just to try and get some ass.
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Because she hardly knows you. If she's willing to sleep with you when she hardly knows you, what's to say she won't sleep/isn't sleeping with other random men she hardly knows? I think, if a guy expects you to sleep with him on the first date, then that's all he wants.

LMAO

I knew who she was. Had never met her though.

I am interested to see where this thread goes though.

Details man, we needs em.
Dinner and a movie? Go to a bar?
Did you get a lame ass good-night hug or a little tongue?
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If she makes you wait to get to know her first, what's to say she won't sleep/isn't sleeping with other guys she knows? Everyone has cheating potential, I guess you could use a first date to judge the level of that potential, but I don't think that is a good way to tell.

If things click during the date and you end up in the sack, why hold that against someone?

They had never met. Thats a LTR thing?

And no I don't care if I get laid on the first date at all. Thats why it happens.

And it makes no difference to me long term if I sleep with them on the first date or not who cares...

Yes, but if you hadn't met her and didn't know who she was would you know it was her?

Totally. Lots of times I won't sleep with a girl at all because there is no click. If there's verbal, intellectual fireworks then the rest follows naturally.

Maybe it's a me thing. I think it's trashy. I would not respect someone who doesn't respect herself enough to show a little restraint.

LMAO Nice.

Maybe they just enjoy sex.

Maybe. It's JMO.

Thats your own installed version of morality. Mine and most other peoples differ. If it makes you feel better about yourself to not end up with your bra on CP then that's fine.

And to think other people are trashy for things you have done yourself is the height of hypocrisy.