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Stupid, Stupid, Stupid !!!!! (https://chiefsplanet.com/BB/showthread.php?t=217865)

Param

11-10-2009 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250309)

Well what adds to it is I feel she has no respect for my privacy. My boyfriend and I were finally off the weekend at the same time. We left saturday and went to town and thinking she would be gone when I got back. I told her we had plans for the weekend. We came back and she was still sitting there and I had to tell her that she needed to find somewhere to go. I do not think I needed to tell her this, she had time in advance to know me and him had plans and wanted to be alone. If she would respect my life and the fact its my house it wouldn't be so bad, but I feel she doesn't do that.

Don't take this the wrong way, but you sound like you suck.

Bugeater

11-10-2009 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250316)

I will do it, but I just wanted some input on a way to go about it without being hurtful. I really don't expect people off Chiefsplanet to come to my home and fix it.

Jesus ****ing christ Badgirl, she obviously has no goddamn concern for your feelings, so why the hell should you worry about hers?

badgirl

11-10-2009 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Param (Post 6250318)

Don't take this the wrong way, but you sound like you suck.

If I sucked, she wouldn't be there to start with. I have given her a nice clean comfortable place to stay, but all she needs to do is show me she is trying for herself. I don't care to help those who help themselves as it goes. But she makes 425.00 a MONTH. I pay more than that in rent. I just want her to find a better paying job so she can save enough to find her own place. What grown woman wouldn't want that without being forced into it.

luv	11-10-2009 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250316)

I will do it, but I just wanted some input on a way to go about it without being hurtful. I really don't expect people off Chiefsplanet to come to my home and fix it.

You don't have to be hateful about it. Just tell her that you'd like to sit down, face to face, and chat. Just tell her that you understand what she's going through (she did just break up with someone, right), but that, while you want to do what you can to help her out, you cannot put yourself in harms way (financially, sacrificing your privacy, etc). Tell her that you do not want her to end up feeling responsible if that should happen. Then, go over some things that she can do to help her prevent herself from doing that to you. Telling someone what they need to hear is not mean in the long run.

I feel like I went in circles there, so it must be past my bedtime.

Param

11-10-2009 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250330)

Then why offer? If you're going to rip someone cramping your style after staying at your place after only one week, then maybe you shouldn't have offered in the first place.

luv	11-10-2009 12:39 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250330)

Someone who's never had to do it.

Param

11-10-2009 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 6250351)

Someone who's never had to do it.

Never let someone stay in my apt? Yah, sure.

badgirl

11-10-2009 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Param (Post 6250344)

Then why offer? If you're going to rip someone cramping your style after staying at your place after only one week, then maybe you shouldn't have offered in the first place.

Damn she is a 44 year old woman she knows right from wrong and how to show respect, she should have known that from day one. If I was having to stay with someone, I would show respect from day one and appreciation.

Param

11-10-2009 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250361)

she should have known that from day one. .

/thread

Hammock Parties

11-10-2009 12:49 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250361)

Damn she is a 44 year old woman

Couple of old, lonely bags living together, eh?

Be careful what you wish for.

Bugeater

11-10-2009 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250361)

Damn she is a 44 year old woman she knows right from wrong and how to show respect

You'd think so, but people who have never had anything of their own, have no idea what it takes to have anything of their own.

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250361)

she should have known that from day one.

Yes, she should have, but she obviously doesn't, and probably never will.

Dante84

11-10-2009 12:53 AM

I know!

Just tell her that your place is haunted................

eh?

LaChapelle

11-10-2009 12:57 AM

I was hoping this would work out
but I can see it won't and us remain friends
goodbye -PS It's me

KChiefsQT

11-10-2009 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250196)

A woman I met when I was selling cars at Nissan who I kinda made friends with practically moved herself in with me, by saying "I may have to use your spare bedroom for a while", well I felt sorry for her and let her.

She has been at my house for one week and its driving me nuts, for one she only has a part time job and I told her you need to start looking for a better job so you can start saving money.

If I was in this position I would be pounding the pavement everyday looking for something and start looking to move, but she hasn't. Now I don't know what to do. I mention something everyday about her needing to find a better job and how after she starts to work she should be able to save in a month or so to move.

She even acts like she has the time to be particular about where she moves.
Damn I don't know what to do cause I keep feeling that I am supporting her I beleive we may not be friends much longer, it may end badly.

What should I do and how should I go about doing it?:(

Oh no....looks like you're gonna have to put your foot down. Honestly, I've made this mistake once and ended up wanting to throw the bitch out by the end of the month. You have to acknowledge the fact that you were doing her a favor by letting her stay with you but that it isn't permanent. Give her a "OUT" date...seriously.

bevischief

11-10-2009 05:19 AM

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Originally Posted by badgirl (Post 6250231)

I am looking for a solution to get rid of her, maybe if one of you guys want her I have found my answer.

ROFL

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