Why would he date a chick with a stache is he that hard up?

Yes, it is expensive. I don't think it's nearly as painful as it used to be, though. Waxing is the cheaper alternative, but those babies keep growing back.

Yes. :LOL:

He is the really big guy that is absolutely hilarious and everyone LOVES but the nice girls shy away from. The cold-hearted ****s usually play the shit outta him.

Oh one of those....my personal thought is if a chick can't take the time to take care of the hair on her face that everyone she encounters will see I don't wanna know what's going on down below.

Precisely.

I'm guessing the mustachioed one has a wrap-around bush.

I think you're terrified of rejection. The issue's not really about how other people see you, it's a projection of what you feel about yourself. A defense mechanism; if you don't give other people a chance to make their own mind up about you, you can't be let down or get hurt. It's a self-fulfilling prophesy.

The number scale thing is a bit of a waste of time, too. You don't have to be a 10 to everybody, only to somebody. And you gotta let them decide how they see you. Give them a chance to make up their own mind.

It's hard. It's a lot easier just to say "I'm not good enough" and use that as a reason to not even try. Putting yourself out there opens you up for all kinds of heartache and disappointment. But it also opens you up for what you're looking for.

I'm not terrified of it. I just don't take it well. In that aspect, yes, it's a defense mechanism. It's kind of frustrating. The guys who do see me as a 10, I'm not attracted to at all. Those who I do like, either see me as a friend or don't want to see me at all.

You know what I mean...

What is it that you don't like about the guys that do like you?

Luv,shit, we've met...so you know I'm not exactly a tiny girl right? But I, in no way, would call myself less than a 10. I don't think you should ever work out to strive to be a 10 or to get rid of fat...I think the working out should be something you just enjoy doing as part of your life....

Je t'aime

They're clingy. They seem desparate. I mean it's the type of thing where I'm nice and help them out, and they view me as some kind of saint. They hardly know me, yet I make their lives better. Ugh! It's not me. It's them taking some advice from me and going out and doing something with it. I didn't do it for them. These types are usually very socially awkward.

I do it because I don't want my heart to explode at 40. The enjoyment will come later when my body (finally) becomes acclimated to it. Right now, though, it's a little too hard and a lot too painful to be enjoyable (until it's over and I get the endorphins). Right now, having a goal is motivation, a reason to do this until it becomes a habit, part of my lifestyle.

(On the flip side, however, my love for cheese, grease and sugar is not yet surpassed by my desire to keep my heart from exploding at 40. So I'm fighting a battle on two fronts.)

Anyway, I don't think there's anything wrong with doing it to look better, but maybe one ought to try a mindset of becoming "even better" instead of going from ugly duckling to golden goose. Look at yourself in a more positive light.

Je t'adore aussi.

I've heard you mention a time or three that you tend towards that sort of behavior yourself. See a bit of yourself in them, and resent them for it, or is that too simplistic?

Jesus, you two, women are hard enough to understand in english.