Actually no. I'm looking for the woman who can put up with my mood swings.

I actually don't like to be dominated. But, I don't like to control, either. I don't understand why one person always has to be, "in charge." Like we can't govern ourselves?

It's actually a little funny.

My bar was set so low as to how I'd let one certain man treat me, that when I first started dating my current love, I'd do double takes because he'd do the common courtesies and niceties that I wasn't used to.

And yet, he's not what you'd call a traditional nice guy.

If I was going to guess, I'd say you are attracted to larger men. Not fat, but tall, and thicker.

I told her she was a bad girl and I was getting out of my "rod of reform."

I'd guess Mer is attracted to personality over appearance, and that she's been involved with a variety of body types.

But I can't read women.

"Rod of reform" sounds like part of a prison relationship.

Its funny my last long term girl friend said I was a good guy with an edge, said I was just enough of an asshole to keep things interesting. Probably pretty accurate.

I really dislike being called a "nice" guy, cuz its almost always followed by the word but.

Nooooo...

I don't know how to describe what I need to you.

I fight for as much freedom as I can grab. I need someone strong enough to help curtail that. Someone smart enough that I can respect what he's actually saying. Someone disciplined enough to know how to be stern without being rude. Someone fanciful enough to find my eccentricities cute. Someone brave enough to let me stop being scared.

If I can walk on him, then other people can too. That's where my love would end. If you're not strong enough to stand up to me... and I'm ****ing adorable... then you don't have a shot.

If you're being dirty and talking about sex, then I like it all. Everytime. Everyone does everything. I'm greedy I guess.

My current boyfriend is posted in the Pictures forum.

Good grief dude... you are a disaster...

Quit worrying about what you think women are looking for. That's irrelevant and futile. Go open a window and shout to the world that you know nothing about women. Get that off your chest. Accept it. Embrace it. Then start being yourself instead of what you're picturing the ideal male as. Women are generally attracted to confident men. A back and forth attitude or apprehension on how you act is a red flag that you're not confident with who you are. A confident man doesn't give a shit what that particular women may be looking for.

You're trying waaaaay too hard. You can't be what "they" want you to be. That's not how it works. When you quit trying, you might find a girl admiring you for the right reasons... Until then you'll continue to look like a clueless amateur that's trying to be Fabio, but coming off as a Woody Allen character...

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Nope. Not at all.

Thanks for telling my I'm right. It would have been shorter just to say that.

You probably don't even know what you need, not completely. ****ing hard thing to figure out.Well that's not asking for much.

lmao

Looks awful in a list, doesn't it.

But anything else, probably wouldn't work. I suppose I could alter me... But that seems stupid.

So how do I become perfect or close to it?