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I'd like Arrowhead Kingdom to survive past me. I think we are already there but I had already started to turn it over a couple of years ago to others before my health issues. I created a leadership crew to run things. Been going well. I'm still involved but letting others take the lead. I'm not involved in the road tailgates and events this year. We has planned big push this off season to expand our international chapters beyond the 6 countries we are already in. But, now even though I have the extra time these days, I just don't have the passion that would take to pull off. So far, I'm finding that I like having no daily responsibilities beyond feeding myself. :D |
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That said, like you, it's awesome to have near zero corporate responsibility. Technically I still work because I teach scuba, but it's a passion, it's easy, it provides LOTS of travel with offset costs, and I can do as much or as little as I want. I knew that this passion of mine wasn't something most people can do at a high level into their 70s, so when the younger son graduated from school I knew it was time to get out of the corporate bullshit and start living the wonderful life that ~50 straight years of working, starting as a paperboy, have provided. Sometimes I wish I had retired in my early 50 mid 50s, but I didn't want to retire until we knew what the younger son was going to pursue as a career. As soon as that was done I never looked back. Egypt with the younger son is going to be epic... I don't think I've been so excited to go on a trip as I am for this one. And in a proud dad moment, I'm more than sure I'm going to pause for a moment when we splash for the first time on 9/1/2024 that while his early diving career is different than mine was, at that moment, I'm be diving with my son who will be more qualified in some areas of the industry than me. Yeah, I'm smiling ear-to-ear. And I'm going to certify him in both wreck and advanced wreck diving in the north Red Sea - something I told him he'd have to wait for. It's time, now he just has to show me that he's ready to complete the certification. I'm not sure what the last part has to do with retiring, but for me it does, it's one of the milestones I had set for myself, if he was ready (and wanted to endure dad being a bit of a prick for the advanced cert), so I'll allow it! |
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So I love YOUR island!! :) |
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Warning..... do not go anywhere in Egypt that's not touristry. That's the only areas where the Egyptian's keep a tight lid on crime. You may get mugged outside those areas but thats not the big deal. Kidnapping and ransom is rampant. When I was living in that area, Americans were welcome. Far from it these days. Rape of Female tourists is rampant outside the tourist areas. |
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And you're right, any of my clients who choose to do a land tour while in Egypt know that they should only go with well known transportation companies and touring companies. I personally don't do them, I've seen as much of the pyramids as I want to see, and if I'm going to see stacked rocks, I'm going to Italy!!! LMAO, but I will certainly help them is they want. Much like a trips to Fiji and the Maldives I'm leading in 2025, many people want to take advantage of places in the area, so a number of folks going to Fiji are going to hangout in Hawaii for a few days before the hop to Fiji (that one I might do), and some going to the Maldives are going to hang in Sri Lanka for a spell. I love traveling... :thumb: |
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Awesome!
If you ever get back down there and have a big group, this is my sister/bro-in-law's place where I lived. 3 BRs, a Bath and kitchenette downstairs, main level kitchen/LR and half bath, and primary bed/bath on third level. Decks everywhere, a pool, outdoor bar. It's on the hilltop so it gets beautiful cooling breezes every day about 3pm...about a 5 minute walk to Bananarama. https://www.vrbo.com/648330 |
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Beans and rice is sooooo simple and SOOOOOO good! |
To get this thread back on talking about retirement.....
Any one of you guys that are retired starting to find that you are just as busy as you were while working, but that what you are doing are things you enjoy? Since I retired I have gotten several offers to do part time consulting, and even had a couple of offers to come out of retirement to get some smaller companies headed in the right direction in regards to my expertise. Most of my time is taken with my part time Picker job, buying and reselling things I find at garage sales, estate sales, and even things people leave at the street side on trash day. That and my volunteer opportunities have me busy almost every....but I still find my mornings looking at ChiefsPlanet. What say you fellow retirees? |
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When the "work" is your passion and done on your schedule, life is good and it's not really work. |
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I'll probably end up volunteering for a charity. |
Nick Foles?
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It's what I have loved doing all my life...just without all the company politics that came with working a regular job. |
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Working for charities is so rewarding.... |
Semi-retired now. I have been getting my son what he needs to be on top of the jiu-jitsu world which is a full time job all by itself. He's finally getting old enough to start doing a lot of this on his own so that's going to free up time. I sold my business which gives me income for awhile so I haven't been stressing. I'm going to get my Real Estate License this year and buy property, build and sell to create two incomes. I have a lot to learn in the near future. I need to have something rolling and want to get this business started for my son so he can walk right into Real Estate when he turns 18. That's the plan anyway. I'm pretty excited about it all.
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Just had a consultation with IPERS. For those that don't know IPERS is Iowa Public Employees' Retirement System. I've been in public service for 36 years and I enjoy my job. I am maxed out in the benefit package and my consultation guy is pretty much yelling at me sternly, "What are you waiting for? Your losing money and benefits by putting this off". I went into this consultation hoping that my benefits would actually increase by deferring till spring 2025. Looking like this retirement shit is going to happen this October.
I don't know why I am hesitant. I have plenty to do. Its just going to be a big life style change and I need to wrap my head around it. |
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Retirement is an adaption that takes time. Your mindset has to come first if it’s a “choice” retirement. |
I think the best part of the transition for me was I was leaving on my own terms. I hadn’t intended to retire when I did, but my company decided they didn’t want me to drop down to half-time for my last year.
So, they received my retirement notice about three weeks later. Just stayed long enough ensure I received the full company match for 2023, and then I hit the ground running. That gave me enough time to get things ready with the family and ensure the finances were in order. Haven’t missed being at wok one day. Quote:
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Too much company politics that were hindering things I wanted to achieve, plus I was going to have a 4th new boss in a span of 18 months. I had given them plenty of notice and they were a bit slow in finding my replacement that had the same skill set. When the 4th candidate didn't accept the offer (I am guessing they were wanting to save money from my salary) I set a final retirement date. I will however say that CAO of the company and I got along really well...he liked my ability to analyze financials on the fly.....provide solutions....and stand my ground on my decisions. At my retirement dinner, he had a really nice speech which made me feel appreciated. That confirmed for me it was time to leave on my terms. |
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I took to retirement like a duck to water! I would have left a few years earlier had I known then what I know now. |
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I'm retired as of today. If you throw your ball into my yard, I'm keeping it.
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About damn time, slacker. :D
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Sorry to hear about the memory issues. Enjoy to the fullest. I plan to do the same, probably next year. We will see. I need more time to bang my avatar....LOLOL!!!! |
Over the next month, I've scheduled ...
a celebratory lunch with my wife a retirement luncheon at my company a couple of friend lunches two concerts two massages some sort of special movie viewing that my wife arranged a role as an extra in an Imax movie a road trip I also bought a new computer, so I'll spend some time getting it set up. I'm switching from a PC system to an Apple system, so I'll have a learning curve. |
There better be some book writing in there, sirrah!
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So now that you're retired are you going to get out and be social? |
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Good luck with your retirement plans. I've been retired for over four hours now, and I'm really enjoying it. |
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Congrats and good luck. I think we met once when you threw a draft party 15 or 20 years ago. I retired early at my minimum SS age because it's set-up so that if you wait, you don't break even unless you live to your 80's. Depending on your lifestyle and genetics and our countries long-term economic outlook, I decided to get started getting the money I'd paid in sooner rather than later.
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One suggestion on the soon to be large collection of footballs, baseballs, softballs and soccer balls that you will accumulate.... Play It Again Sports....you might find it to be a retirement benefit supplement. LMAO |
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CD’s I can always get to. We stagger them so if we have an emergency we can pull that money out without losing the interest money. |
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If you want to be John and Janie Jetset then you will need a treasure trove of money.... If you want to just live a comfortable lifestyle and enjoy your years, conservative mindsets work very well. |
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I traveled around the world from 18-25 years old. Pretty much everywhere but Russia/China and South America. So I don’t feel the need to travel like that again. |
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Florida is a great place to retire to...plenty of things within traveling distance to see in Georgia, Alabama, NC SC and if I am in the mood, TN. One the occasion I want to hop on a plane it will only be to see my daughter and son in law. |
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I have 30 palm trees in my yard. Huge swimming pool and inground jacuzzi. 10K boat dock(but, currently have no boat). Even though I don't have a million in cash I'm supposed to have at retirement, I already live in a vacation spot. Absolutely no desire to go off globe trotting. I'll probably travel in the USA. I think I'd like to take one of those scenic trains through the Rockies or maybe one of those Canadian rail trips. |
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Plus....I do have the desire to take 2 weeks to spend in Washington DC to do all of the Smithsonian's. So I amend my thoughts to this....I live in a beautiful state. I have friends and family who come visit me because I live close enough to the beach that it is an attraction that brings them here. There are a few places I will go as a retirement travel desire, but for the most part....I am home. :) |
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I just submitted my papers. One month and 7 days to go.
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Quick serious comment that has not been addressed yet, but I feel the need to bring up to all of us.
On Tuesday I went to lunch with a local buddy of mine who retired about a year ago. I thought it a bit odd that he would just call me out of the blue and ask to have lunch, but I thought maybe he was trying to get started again on our regular lunch meets we used to have. I could tell by looking at him something was wrong....he didn't have his normal jovial persona and his face looked worn. Long story short...he is struggling mentally with his self worth and his place now that he is retired. He feels like he is no longer contributing positively like he did when he was working....for some reason a job and a paycheck was his emotional identity and after a year of doing, as he put it, "selfish things only for me", he had gotten down on himself. I listened....just talked when he needed me to. Man did stuff come out that I could tell he needed to vent. Then I took him to meet the Counselor from our church and introduce them to each other. Our guy handed him his card and said...."when you need to talk, call me." Nothing more...just his way of saying come talk to me when you need to. (Our church has many people my age who are in retirement or getting there and developed an outreach program just for that group) To sum up...if you have friends you see that are struggling like mine was, make sure to keep in touch with them. We will all eventually have times that we struggle in retirement and it's no shame to admit it. |
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My memory loss has gotten a lot worse the last couple of months and I had to to give up control of Arrowhead Kingdom. I'm making mistakes that I have no idea why I did that. I've got a great leadership crew to take over. They'll take it places I never could of. So it looks like it will survive post BRC.
That's the first time I've really felt "old". I figured I could spend more time on our international surge in retirement. Alas, it was not to be. I am loving retirement though. I enjoyed my work but it was stressful. Don't miss it yet. |
Welp! I have 5 more working days left. Trying to avoid any new projects but my boss keeps bringing me in on meetings for FY-25 budget items. I don't think he realizes my "giveashitter" is broken and I don't care what they do. Time has flown by these past few months but I imagine this last week will drag on.
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But yeah, sometimes it's not the best idea to have the outgoing person in on budget meetings for the next fiscal year... Enjoy your last week, you're going to smile a lot.. |
I guess I'm lucky in that I had a bunch of other things going on in my life. Work never defined me - it was something I did so I could afford to do other stuff.
I remember meeting my last team lead a couple of years ago. He brought me down for lunch and explained who he was and what his plans were for the team writ large and what he intended to do to help each member of the team advance in their careers. I stopped him after a bit and said, "John, my only goal at (Company) is to get to retirement in a couple of years. I have no aspirations at being a manager - my last job in the Army had me leading 84 soldiers in 53 separate offices and answering to six different officers at one time or another. I want interesting work, regular hours, and to be left alone to do my job. I don't want a promotion, am not seeking a promotion, and would probably turn down said promotion. So, does that help?" He looked at me, smiled, and said, "So, how do you feel about football?" It was a very pleasant lunch after that. *grin* Quote:
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We have been retired now for just over a decade and I have the same as or more than a full time job keeping up with my hobbies and property maintenance. When we retired in 2014, I would have never believed that I would have to pay $10.50 for 5 peaches or $950 for 6 months of car insurance. |
I'm down to seven working days. This is working out well for me because the company I work for, well contracting with, was purchased and is being dissolved. Our IT department is winding down and we just sit around waiting for them to turn out the lights.
Have started looking into Medicare and am shocked at how much this costs the average person. My dentist and eye care centers do not take any Medicare at all so I will need to find a new one. Been going to them for over thirty years... I'm a little bit nervous about the whole thing because I've spent my entire working life defining myself as what I can do for the job and now that's going to be gone. Lots of changes in IT; from punched cards to 'the cloud'. Seen the rise of the PC and the fall of the mainframe. Been an interesting ride and I'm glad I'm going to be out of IT. |
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That said, I hope you developed a hobby during your years in IT. IMO, a hobby is almost a requirement for IT people to decompress during those brief times when you aren't living the job day and night because few successful IT workers have any semblance of a 9-5 job anymore. I am, and always have been, a SCUBA junkie and part of not missing my IT job is that the IT job has allowed me to retire very nicely and live my passion of teaching diving and frequently traveling for diving. Granted on many of my trips I'm "working", but it's hardly work for me. I hope you have a hobby that you're very passionate about, and do it a lot after seven more working days. A bit of advice.... Plan an awesome trip soon... It's the best way to break into retirement and forget what you just left.. Three days after I retired I spent a week in Roatan diving, it was awesome beyond words... I was a retiree... |
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