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Iowanian 02-01-2009 10:18 AM

He's a guy, so it could be true that he's busy with work and house repairs.

Regardless, leave the ball in his court. If you push and email and call and spill your guts, you'll run him off faster than gochiefs walking through a jr high dance naked.

luv 02-01-2009 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian (Post 5445899)
He's a guy, so it could be true that he's busy with work and house repairs.

Regardless, leave the ball in his court. If you push and email and call and spill your guts, you'll run him off faster than gochiefs walking through a jr high dance naked.

I told him that, if he wants to take a break next weekend, that there's a movie coming out I want to see and invited him. If he wants to, he will. If not, eh.

Sure-Oz 02-01-2009 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Jilly (Post 5445780)
generally, Luv, if a guy doesn't call you, soon after the date, he's prob not head over heels for you and you deserve someone who will fall for you, not just think you're acceptable

I wouldn't say that's exactly true but it is likely too but...some guys got other stuff going on. I didn't call my current gf back, hell i was on a date with another girl then, but i was thinking about her. She actually texted me a few days later and i called her back. He is either not that interested or busy. If he doesn't call past a week and half i'd say move on.

Sure-Oz 02-01-2009 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 5445903)
I told him that, if he wants to take a break next weekend, that there's a movie coming out I want to see and invited him. If he wants to, he will. If not, eh.

Just cause you had 1 date doesn't mean you have to make him your everything. You say you're independent well do your normal thing and don't contact him, i mean its too late but for future, let the guy call you or what almost a week if need be and ask how its going. If he wants to go out with you he'll do the inviting...or give you some sort of hint.

keg in kc 02-01-2009 10:54 AM

If somebody really hits it off with you, there's no 3-day waiting period. They're calling the next day. Or later that night. Doesn't mean something can't come out of it, but I'd probably start looking for other options.

Saulbadguy 02-01-2009 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 5445975)
If somebody really hits it off with you, there's no 3-day waiting period. They're calling the next day. Or later that night. Doesn't mean something can't come out of it, but I'd probably start looking for other options.

That is what I think - unless he is dead, or seriously injured, he'd be calling back in 3 days if he was interested.

luv 02-01-2009 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 5445975)
If somebody really hits it off with you, there's no 3-day waiting period. They're calling the next day. Or later that night. Doesn't mean something can't come out of it, but I'd probably start looking for other options.

He did text message me when he got home. I just think he's friendly though. Maybe not confrontational? Either way, I agree. I do believe that he's busy, but, if he wanted to see me again, it wouldn't be that difficult to make time one evening.

Skip Towne 02-01-2009 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by KChiefsQT (Post 5432555)
Not because of men being disgusted by it... for my health...at some point, yes.

We're not all disgusted by it. I like it. That whole oral fixation thing.

Sure-Oz 02-01-2009 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Skip Towne (Post 5446010)
We're not all disgusted by it. I like it. That whole oral fixation thing.

Till you smell their breath

DaKCMan AP 02-01-2009 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Sure-Oz (Post 5446014)
Till you smell their breath

In his old age Skip has lost his sense of smell.

Sure-Oz 02-01-2009 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 5446017)
In his old age Skip has lost his sense of smell.

True, i hate chicks that smoked, blah

luv 02-01-2009 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 5446017)
In his old age Skip has lost his sense of smell.

Nah, he just likes kissing her ass.

Skip Towne 02-01-2009 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Sure-Oz (Post 5446020)
True, i hate chicks that smoked, blah

You guys are a bunch of girly men. Pussies.

DaKCMan AP 02-01-2009 12:34 PM

If a guy doesn't ask you out again within 24hrs he's not that interested in you. A confident girl with spine & brains wont wait around for a guy who follows the "4 day rule". Don't be a doormat. A girl deserves a guy who's interested.

Jilly 02-01-2009 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP (Post 5446248)
If a guy doesn't ask you out again within 24hrs he's not that interested in you. A confident girl with spine & brains wont wait around for a guy who follows the "4 day rule". Don't be a doormat. A girl deserves a guy who's interested.

exactly my point


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