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I just saw a commercial for E-Harmony and it's "free communication" weekend!

Time to find your matches and whore it up on e-harmony this weekend. FYI for Luv and Claythan

eHarmony - Free communication weekend
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Posted 3 days, 2 hours ago

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From a blog I read:

-It's possible to pick up a girl you've never met in a restaurant by initiating a game of tic-tac-toe on a napkin and making your waitress relay the game between the both of you until you make your approach.

Trust me. I know a guy.

The only winning move is not to play.

Thanks, but no thanks. I'm about 6-9 months away from thinking about dating again.

Thats totally cool Luv, but I just have to know how you managed that math.

With every pound I lose, I shred more insecurity. I like who I am. I'd be a damn fine catch. People have to want to open the package though. The more appealing the package, the more people will want to open it. Not saying I wouldn't date someone now if the opportunity and right person came along, but I'm not going to be actively searching or putting myself out there.

Let that shit happen naturally, it will catch up to you when you least expect it. Definetly get rid of the insecurity that will help a ton.

You always find it when you aren't actively looking for it.
Good lord. I've only ever found it in the absolute oddest places and times.

Happy to hear you're doing beautifully.

Which means it will happen before that timeframe.

Aaaaaaaaawe, a baby.

:LOL:

Yeah, that's it.

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luv I think you're too hung up on your own physical appearance. If you want to lose weight fine but do it for you not for someone else. I think you seem to have a good heart and I don't think you should be afraid to take on a relationship if one presents itself. Confidence in yourself as a person is way more important than being as thin as you think you have to be.

Women are never happy with their bodies anyway. My gf is 112 pounds soaking wet, holding a brick and she thinks her butt is too big. I can cover an asscheek with one hand. Christ I drives me insane. The thing is I wouldn't care if it took two hands. Heh.

You're fine the way you are for the right person.

I wouldn't pass one up if it happens. You know how sick and tired someone gets of being told what a good person they are, how cool they are, and how sweet they are, only to get passed up for someone who acts like a bitch, but who's good looking? Don't tell me looks don't matter. I'm not going to lie to myself. They do matter. I'm not losing weight for someone else. I'm doing it so I can feel better about myself and how I present myself. In turn, hopefully that helps me find someone. If not, well, I've survived on my own.