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****.

It's been 5 days since I've talked to her and I don't even know what ****ing state she is in. I've sent her 1 text each of the last 2 days with no response. I'm starting to feel worried if she's okay or not.

You should be angry, not worried... be all like "**** that bitch not returning my texts" then go out and bang some whores.

Words of Wisdom... :thumb:

I don't have a man, so I don't have a need for it. Therefore, I've never had to worry about how to spell it.

Therefore...lol

Can you tell I've been typing legal documents today? I can throw in a whereas and a heretofore as well. :)

She just texted me back finally.

She's still here. I thought she was in Vermont.

You're one of them there fancy ladies that uses big words, aren't ya?

Ummm....Mock-ing...Bird...

I don't know if any of you remember, but a couple weeks ago I was talking about this chick who I like who has a boyfriend...

So anyway, I felt like there was something between us a couple weeks ago. I didn't say anything, but I just knew.

Tonight I hung out with her again. She was with her bf too. When her bf got away from us she asked something to the effect of, "you like me don't you? If I didn't have a bf you would go after me?" I told her yes, but I like your bf too, so I won't. The night rolled on and it became more clear that there was an undeniable attraction between us.

Sorry, I was posting from my iPod and it was becoming tedious, so I just turned on my computer.

Anyhow...I went out with the girl I've been seeing for a while last week and I asked her where she wanted to go to eat. She told me the restaurant. It just so happens that this chick works at said restaurant, so in my head I was like, "**** yeah..."

I haven't actually seen either of the girls (the girl I am seeing or this new chick) since then. When I talked to her tonight she said that I was totally awkward so I told her that I was sort of nervous because I like her....

At the end of the night, we both got a ride home from someone since we were too drunk to drive (tonight). Her boyfriend was in the car with us. For some reason he took the front seat, so that left me and his girlfriend in the backseat. On the ride home she was laying on me (I had my arm around her) and she grabbed my hand and we were holding hands the whole way home (with her bf right in the front seat!) **** man, I don't want to impose on this dude's chick, but she obviously likes me and I like her.

When we got to my house, she kissed me again and whispered in my ear that if I want to see her that I know where to find her.

So I ask again...

Would it be ****ed up if I went for her? I know she has a bf, but to be honest with you, and I've never ever felt this way before, I knew I liked her at first sight. I didn't know her at all (I met her about a month ago). I never said anything to her because of her boyfriend, but all of the sudden she brought it up tonight.

I would feel awful going after someone with a boyfriend, but this girl has me wrapped up in her fist!

Let's say I really want to make a move and go after her. Would the right thing for me to do is tell her that I can't until she quits with her current bf or should I just go after it? I've never cheated on anyone and I've never been the person who is being cheated with. I don't know what to do.

Here's what I posted in this thread a couple weeks ago so you don't have to dig back and find it.

well I've always believed a relationship started through cheating will end the same way. I think if she really likes you she'd dump her current bf before starting anything. I would even recommend putting that on the table. If you want a trustworthy relationship it has to start right.

If the Ho's Beau isn't your Bro;
then it's a go