I've had people tell me that, or I've heard people tell other people that "if you can't stand the thought of them with someone else, that means you love that person." I say that idea is BS (no offense Lumpy).

If you've been in even a semi serious relationship that you could see becoming serious - when the topic of breaking up comes up, you never like the thought of them with someone else. Nobody wants to think about their girlfriend with another guy.

To me, if you want to know if you truly love that person, the question you need to ask yourself is can YOU live without her?

Mr. Plow makes a good point. It could just be jealousy and not love. Both are oh so close in intensity.

She's dating Buck. I doubt ha has anything to worry about.

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When did you get smart?

Around the time my wife said "Yes, I'll marry you." Made me look like a genius. :)

Wow. Did she mail-order you, or does she charge for training?

No offense taken. That may be part jealousy, (like what Setsuna said). You made a valid point too. But when someone comes on a public board and states that they love their gf/wife, but wants to end it, it makes you wonder what could be horribly wrong w/ their relationship?

EVERY relationship has ups and downs, but the worse thing someone can do is not think long and hard about how the break-up will influence their life. (Yes, I just typed, "long and hard". Heh.)

But, on the other hand, Buck's seeking someone outside of the relationship to fill a void. This leads me to believe that he probably does love her, but he's no longer IN love w/ her. I hope I'm wrong though and that he's just a guy that gets off by the attention from the other chick.

Regardless, if he wanted to pursue a relationship w/ this other chick, it's not fair to his g/f, (or the chick's b/f for that matter). But then again, nobody is married in this love triangle, so that eliminates a lot of complications.

Lumpy is smart too! Good wisdom. :)

With ass kissing skills like that, you're sure to go far on CP! :thumb:

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Ding ding ding! I haven't been feeling it being reciprocated from this other girl for quite a while. I mean, I like sex, but I also really like her, and I want to feel loved too. I'm not. That's why the talk is going to happen.

:LOL:

Other than being a Gators fan this is your best post on CP thus far.

Reciprocity is enormously important. Hell, if I don't get reciprocity from just friends calling to hang out or go do stuff I eventually write them off or stop calling. If there's a lack of it in a relationship, then it's definitely over.

A bill for my services will arrive in your mailbox in the next 3-5 working days. :)

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2... count them 2 ass kissers on Chiefsplanet. Awh, awh, awh!

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