Crush, your new avatar is pure awesome and reflects a much-needed wind of change blowing through Arrowhead.

Oh yes! Repizzle.

Thank you, but all of the credit should go to Aturnis. Without him, there is no avatar.

Do you know what you're doing?

I has a sad.

tell it to me, and I'll make a glad...

I doubt you can do that.

You know that girl I was seeing? Well she's like my best friend. One of two best friends anyway.

Her dad has cancer and today they did a surgery to see if the cancer had spread. It had. They give him less than 6 months to live.

Well, now I doubt I can either. I'm sorry to hear it bro.

Thanks.

I don't know how the hell I am supposed to stay strong for her when I can't even stay strong for myself.

I think I might drink heavily tonight.

Bro, I feel for you. I lost my dad to cancer last year. I don't wish that on my worst enemy. IMHO drinking it away won't do anything but make it worse tomorrow. Keep strong.

Cancer is son of a bitch. When my grandpa finally succumbed to aggressive prostate cancer, we were all with him during his fight. The best piece of advice I can give is to just be there for her. Just because they give him less than 6 months, it is not a death sentence. He just has to keep fighting and to never give up.

Cancer thinks it wins because it takes a life. Fortunately, that is not true. Cancer will always lose if the patient fights and the family is by his or her side. Even if Cancer eventually takes the life, it does not have the power to take the person's soul or the memories of that person shared by those that love him. Just be there for her because it will not be easy.

Congrats Crush, you just made me cry.

x2

I'm not trying to be a douche here, but Cancer definitely wins if someone dies. That's a life, dude.

I am going to beg to differ. I don't want to send the ****ing 10pm thread to DC, but Cancer is only physical. It is not spiritual. I am just going to leave it at that. Cancer only wins, if you let it win.

I completely understand where your coming from. It just really sucks to see someone you love go through the pain and agony for so long, with hope they can beat it.