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CaliforniaChief 01-07-2010 05:32 PM

Absolutely. I have 14 of them and it works great! /Tiger Woods

Bugeater 01-07-2010 05:33 PM

Absolutely not.

Mile High Mania 01-07-2010 05:33 PM

Depends... if either of you has wanted to date the other, or if you have dated in the past... I don't think you can be best friends without something awkward happening.

I've been really good friends with girls (back in my dating days), but I'm not sure they would have been called my best friend. Probably my best female friend that wasn't my girlfriend...

I dunno, I think it just boils down to the whole sex thing... and like I said, if there's a history there or if either of you would ultimately like to get sweaty and naked... the best friend thing will fail.

DumbHillbillies 01-07-2010 05:35 PM

No, not for me if she is decent looking I'm going to try to fuck her. If she is ugly then I'm not going to talk to her so we couldn't become best friends. So, I just stay away from the platonic girl best friend thing.

Donger 01-07-2010 05:36 PM

Of course. My wife is my best friend.

* Can't help but think of the "fuck buddy" scene from 40 Year Old Virgin *

morphius 01-07-2010 05:36 PM

Yes, even though what EyePod said is true, it can 'cause some issues if there are others involved.

Helps if they are a lesbian though, lol.

Mile High Mania 01-07-2010 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by morphius (Post 6420426)
Yes, even though what EyePod said is true, it can 'cause some issues if there are others involved.

Helps if they are a lesbian though, lol.

Yeah, and if your best friend is a lesbian... then you can invite her over for drinking games with you and your girl... see what happens. Whole new meaning to BFF.

Rausch 01-07-2010 05:38 PM

I had one girl best friend and a number of good friends that were girls.

morphius 01-07-2010 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Mile High Mania (Post 6420430)
Yeah, and if your best friend is a lesbian... then you can invite her over for drinking games with you and your girl... see what happens. Whole new meaning to BFF.

Well, that would sort of lead to the whole complication mess, wouldn't it?

Mile High Mania 01-07-2010 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Rausch (Post 6420443)
I had one girl best friend and a number of good friends that were girls.

So, in your adult life... you had a girl that you would have called your best friend, not one of your male friends? If so, that's cool... in 3rd grade, my best friend was a girl... but, I really dug her too... so, ultimately I was just trying to get her to check the "do you like me like me" or "just like me" box.

Mile High Mania 01-07-2010 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by morphius (Post 6420448)
Well, that would sort of lead to the whole complication mess, wouldn't it?

Certainly...

Huffman83 01-07-2010 05:47 PM

I've had a lot of female friends and some were girls I dated and or had sex with. I still talk to most of them but now that I'm married I don't go out of my way to spend time with them. And my wife is comfortable me being around them, it's just I don't feel for it to be appropriate for me to be going out and about and hanging around a woman that isn't my wife. If I've gone out to meet one of those girls without my wife, it's because their boyfriends were with them.

As far as friendship goes I'm always able to pick up where our friendship left off. I've known some of the girls since I was 11 so there's a lot of history. But I would never want my wife to suspect or accuse me being interested in another woman. And while I think my female friends are some of the most beautiful women I've known, I know there's a reason why I didn't commit to them when I did have the chance!

PunkinDrublic 01-07-2010 05:50 PM

Yes. Even if your not attracted to a chick if you can still be cool and she can hook U up
with her hot friends. Guys can be such dicks to chicks they are not attracted to. You never
know when the fatty u just were mean to has a million hot, slutty friends.
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Fritz88 01-07-2010 05:51 PM

You can't **** with nature. Eventually your dick will find its way to her vajayjay

El Jefe 01-07-2010 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by FAX (Post 6420403)
I've had a very similar experience, Mr. kcchiefsfanGoJC, and have concluded that it is, in fact, impossible for a female "best friend" or "good friend" relationship to remain Platonic. I think it has to do with spending time together. Eventually, something happens. It always does.

FAX

I agree.


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