Finding someone not attractive has nothing to do with being shallow, there are people you are just not physically attracted to at all, that's life.

A woman will say a man doing that to them is being an asshole but a woman will judge a man based on the size of his wallet and think that's fine.

No, I'm just annoyed that I haven't learned to never be amazed at the lack of tact or maturity men show. I guess I'm under some grand dillusion that they'll grow out of it. I'm finding out they don't.

Agreed, ive dated some hot chicks that are really stupid, annoying etc...that turns me off...yet they were still fun to "hang" with....GF material is a diff story

Not being attracted to all shapes and sizes = immature.

Ok. :rolleyes:

What's wrong with a guy not liking a heavy person? The attraction isn't there for most of us, just like some chicks don't dig thin guys and only ripped guys etc...how does that make the person immature if they aren't attracted to a 200lb chick?

Seeing as how I'm griping about being fat, you must be poor. We can both change our disposition, though. I did. Last year. Found out that although I felt better and looked better, people still saw me as fat.

Wat??

Exactly. LMAO

Me too. BIG time. Pun intended. There are definitely a lot more girls I can't have sex with than girls I can, but that doesn't mean you can't have some of what you want. I agree with the consensus here GC, you need to work on your skills with anyone willing at this point. The time for picking and choosing will come later. I wouldn't even begin to try and explain the uncanny resemblance between the first girl I ever porked and a blue whale. Get in where you fit in. You can improve that area with experience. Get drunk if necessary, I promise girls will become more attractive to you. Just don't drink too much............

Okay. So I'm fat AND stupid. I'm just gonna stop trying.

Why are you taking it so damn personal cause everyone has their own tastes?

I'm just saying everyone is shallow about something...but some people just aren't attracted to each other. If some chick has a crooked nose, missing front teeth and a big scar on her cheek should I somehow think she's ok looking?

See, I don't even care about noses. Or scars. My standards aren't too high. I'd **** a 9. :D

Because I've never been anyone's taste. The one time I thought I was, and he turns out to be a lying, cheating scum who used me. And you guys say that woen are the ones who use guys for such things as money and good credit.

There is someone, for everyone.

The elephant man had a soul mate who'd suck his taters.

Everyone does have their own tastes though. Some guys PREFER meaty women, some like stick figures, some guys like ethnic chics.....and its not like all women have the same taste either.