If I knew you and I ran into you while hanging out with someone. As soon as you were gone I would say, "That is the chick I was telling you about, you know the one that had an acquaintance move themselves into her house and she was too spineless to even ask them leave."

If only for self respect, take control of this situation.

I have never heard of this law here, but if there is one I am sure she has never heard of it.

No I am just hoping it doesn't have to end in a all out war, but as I told my daughter, its like a storm brewing and it isn't going to be much longer till I just hit the roof. I don't want it to come to that but it may have to.

Yeah, because you're a lot smarter than her, right? She's chillin, no rent, no responsibility.... But you look down your nose at her like she's not playin you for a fool. Heh. Hilarious.

Just sit down with her and have a date marked on the calendar. Tell her you were more than glad to help her out but on this date (point to date marked) you have to be out, and that you'll do whatever you can to help her out in that regard. End of conversation.

Well if I threw her shit in the yard and MY landlord told her he wanted her off his premises, then I am sure she would leave. She has no proof how long she has been there. She has been buying groceries cause I won't buy anything, if she wants to eat she can buy it.

Yes that is more along the line I would like to approach on getting her to move.

I beleive my date will be Feb. 1st cause she has been there 2 months already and if someone hasn't done anything to help themselves in that length of time, they are not planning on it.

Then just do it. You don't have to get so worked up about it. Settle down.

Ok...thank you. Merry Christmas

It may take till Feb 1st for you to work up the courage to ask her to move. Lets take this one step at a time.

whoa, you are stilll letting her leech off you? Wow, i thought by now you would have kicked her out. wow.

Well its winter and she has no place else to go, I know that shouldn't be my problem, but I would like to know when she leaves she has a place to sleep.

She does have a place to sleep - anywhere not at your house.

For all the guff I give you, you do have a heart at least 3x the size of your IQ and that's a good problem to have. So Merry Christmas to you and your dependents.

Point her to the closest homeless facility.